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As galenkp pointed out, it often down to a series of daily choices in the attitude, the mindset and action.
Here is what i figured out:
1. The Relationship with Failure
Successful: See failure as data not destiny. They unpack what went wrong learn the lesson and adapt their approach. A setback is just a setup for the smarter comeback.
Unsuccessful: Are paralyzed by fear of failure. They see it as a permanent reflection of their worth, which stops them from taking the every risk necessary for growth.
2. Their Focus
Successful: Focus on their own lane. their goals, their improvement. They compete with who they were yesterday.
Unsuccessful: Focus on every else's lane. They gossip, critique and obsess over other's journeys using it as a distraction from their own lack of action. As the saying goes, "Don't blame the sum for your inability to light a candle."
3. Their Source of Validation
Successful: Are intrinsically motivated. Their drive comes form a personal standard of excellence.
Unsuccessful: Seek external validation. Their mood and effort fluctuate based on the praise or criticism from other that makes their progress fragile and inconsistent.
Let's Get Interactive:
This is not about judgment, it is about self awareness. We are all exhibited both successful and unsuccessful traits at different times. The goat is to cultivate more.
Poll: Which "successful" trait do you find most challenging to maintain?
i) Learning from failure
ii) Staying focused
iii) Staying motivated
Wanna Add Up:
Is there a trait you would like to add this list?
Takeaway:
The important takeaway I think is: Success is not a lottery, it is a lifestyle built one intentional choice at a time.
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