Awesome reflection,Hive account@kesityu!
When I was in early twenties I realised at one point that I need to be in a happy mood to be able to spread it, to share it with others, and the same with love. Essentially, I need to take care of myself first, of these needs.
But I heard, putting myself to the first place is selfish. I was confused and put in doubts.
Nowadays, I know for sure that I radiate to my surrounding the states of being which I find myself in in that precisely moment.