Greetings Dear Hivers! I came here with another interesting topic that I have found yesterday. From the day we were born, when we are moving forward in life, we often encounter big obstacles. They can be not only external barriers, but also internal barriers. Sometimes even our closest friends or family may say that the hopes we have said will never happen. But we have the strength within us to break the word 'no' and conquer our goals. Self-strength must be found within yourself.
Get used to seeing other people's rejection of you not as an obstacle, but as another strong step on the way to your goal. Then those words of no will strengthen you even more. They give you an opportunity to think more deeply about your goal and improve it. I will give a successful example of this involving a famous person. You have heard that Thomas Alva Edison failed more than 1000 times trying to produce a light bulb. That day, many people told him, "You can't do that job." But he learned some lesson from each of those failures and changed his plans and finally he brought light to the earth. If he was afraid of those words, we still have to find light at night in different ways than the light bulb.
If you have a clear decision about your goal and can give it your full attention and dedication, you will be so strong that you cannot be deterred by the words of others. Why is your goal important to you? What will make you happy when you win it? You can find answers to these questions if you pay close attention. It not only gives you great courage but also generates self-strength.
When most people say no, remember that there are people in the world waiting to help you achieve your goals. Find friends, mentors, or family members who can encourage you and share your dreams with you. It is not a difficult task to be taken seriously. There are other people living in our society who match your ideas. They will be a great strength in your journey.
Others may say no because your goal is too big. Divide that big goal into smaller parts and try to overcome each part. Then the saying no will be less and less, and your achievements will be visible to them too. For example, You will be able to understand it more from the story of Michael Jordan. Michael Jordan, one of the greatest players in basketball history, was kicked off his school basketball team. But he didn't say no. He improved his skills little by little. He took each practice, each match as a step towards the goal. Eventually he became a basketball king of the world.
Don't let other people's can't affect your mind. Your self-strength is your greatest weapon. Keep your mind strong through meditation, positive thinking, or doing things that make you happy. So at the end of the day, when others say no, it's only one obstacle in your way. If you have a clear vision of your goal, courage, and self-confidence, those obstacles are not insurmountable. But they overcame those obstacles. You can do it too. So, brace yourself for your goal. Your journey is beautiful and the victory of that journey is yours. Answer those who say no with your victory.
