Sometimes, the best thing we can do when we find ourselves in a situation that is far bigger than our under or seems so complex to maneuver in our favour, we need to sit back, relax, and observe everything.
I am a young guy that is very slow to anger, especially when being confused or influenced to do things against my own will, but grouwjbb up has made me understand that, if we give In to our feelings and our mind at that moment of anger, trust me a lot of issue will emerge and somethings might be destroyed, like trust, mutual feelings or physical object which is why we need to be careful of how we respond to our feelings at that moment.
Sometimes being too joyful can be really dangerous, I once was overwhelmed with joy and I broke a TV mistakenly while jumping, immediately my mood changed instantly at that moment. This is why observation should come first. In my term, I refer to observation as being watchful of everything around you in which includes, the feeling, facial responses at that moment, the aura of that moment, words to respond with, and words spoken at that moment.
It's good to observe more; it gives us time to learn how next move and often helps us to make the right move, yes we don't just adapt to observing more in a day, it takes time to adapt to this. I learnt to observe more from my friend, he is a very calm guy and always watchful of his response to every situation, I fell in love with this approach for real, and it has really helped me grow into a better version of myself.
Presently, I love observing more, it helps me to study the person's real feelings, and the right response to that situation. It helped me boost my personal productivity and my response to every situation. I grew up with my senior brothers not related by blood and they often taught me to be really blunt with people and respond to situations around me, yes it is the right approach to some situatu, but there are sometimes the best thing to do is just to keep silent and watch what the person is saying at that moment, I meant like observe what the person is really saying and why he is saying it.
I don't believe there are things like low mentality, just because a person is not as exposed as you are does not mean they have low mentality, most times people use this word to avoid some set of people in conversations. If a words from a person does not befits you correct the person or let the person know he or she is wrong at that moment, that is the best approach to take towards something.
Perpetual observation has always taught me that we can't judge everyone the same way, most times answers to questions asked are not said but written in patterns or feelings at that moment.
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