Blind dates

Lunch time in the office has become a time to chat, this time we talk about blind dates, during lunch a colleague tells us that he has met a girl online, he says it with so much emotion that it seems that he is in love, his eyes shine for someone he has not seen, It turns out that it seems like an epidemic because my other colleague tells me that she has signed up for an application to meet people, the one she interacts with lives in another country, between jokes and jokes I tell them that we can make a program of everything in 90 days like the ones on TV in the office.

My colleagues are very happy with their virtual loves, they send messages to each other by WhatsApp since they exchanged numbers, they even made plans to share their lives together, it seems crazy to me, they look happy until when will their happiness last? Maybe they are compatible because one thing is internet dating and another very different in real life, but of course I did not want to erase his smile, my coworker twelve who is very funny and asks me if I would like to meet someone online.

I have never participated in that of dating I think they are normal people who find it hard to relate emotionally, perhaps they do not know how to deal with their loneliness or are looking for an ideal that does not exist, but this topic became interesting since we live in the technological age where you shorten distance by just pressing a few keys and connect to an internet site or a chat dedicated to those seeking a partner.

What is the attraction of online dating?

It occurred to me to ask some questions, is it that you are very shy and it is difficult for you to meet people? or are you afraid of being rejected? because my coworkers are normal people or is it that in the area you have not found the candidate and that is why you are attracted to internet dating, you can search by age, sex, country and personality profile that suits your taste for my coworkers these dates seem less stressful than meetings in person, it seems crazy but it is not and it is more common than you think.

Can you make a real image of someone you have not seen? because on the internet they all present themselves as attractive, honest and successful people, but how much truth is there in that information that the person gives about themselves? I have not had the opportunity to enter one of these dating apps but parami is a failure, and you can see in the same reality all in 90 days, there lie in every way by height, weight, age and others say that the physical does not matter and forgive me for saying so but the physical does matter in a large percentage.

Lying in small things is the best way to start a relationship? If the most important thing is trust and it is already fractured, plus with the help of the internet itself you can get perfect phrases and with this AI reality is more unreal, for me these relationships are a trap you are just filling the gaps you want, of course my partners or have reached the stage of the meeting in people have not spoken by video calls to see their gestures or how real they are, nor can see how is the treatment towards other people who are important when it comes to formalize a relationship.

Now what if it's time for a face-to-face encounter and you don't like what you're looking at, nothing to do with the pictures? Or you don't like the smell? Relationships go beyond romantic messages and promises that you will not fulfill, this type of relationship emotions can be intense quickly, but in most cases are d cause disappointment, it is not good to rush was what I thought of saying before starting our workday, It's just an advice you can save disappointment, sadness etc, and maybe even complicated situations, finally I say you have to be careful blind dates are not always what it seems, in their faces I could tell that they do not like my comment, but I just say everyone does in the end what they want.

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