Whose freshman year wasn't filled with unnecessary fear, enthusiasms and excitement that you finally got into a tertiary institution? Some people who have faced multiple failed attempts into the University tend to attribute their lack of success to various factors such as spiritual attacks(heheđ). But those who triumphed feel grateful for their victory, and recognize that it is something to celebrate and cherish.
I watched my first year roommates (freshers đ) talk enthusiastically about their preparations to look all glam and pretty for their matriculation happening this Saturday. After they talked about their preparations, they talked about the after-party and all the fun they'll have.
Listening to them reminded me of myself. I never really took matriculation seriously then. I saw it as a phase that will definitely pass whether I take it seriously or not. I remember having to attend it just because my dad was going to be attending it that day. After the celebration ended and my dad left, I headed straight for my dorm room and went to sleep.
But why exactly aren't some people excited when it comes to things like that? The ceremony doesnât take so long anyway. Itâs a once in a lifetime experience.
Why should I go there when my presence isn't needed? If I attend or not, who will notice? And besides, I'll get my matriculation oath form whether I'm there or not. To be honest, this was my thought that period. But now, seeing that I don't really have many pictures of my matriculation is weird cause when I was younger, my parents made sure I took so many pictures of everything about me till I entered the University. As a person who loves taking pictures, I really do not have any reason for not taking much pictures that particular day. Probably because I felt that there's always the convocation ceremony which I must attend. Matriculation is a fun opportunity to get dressed up and feel like a million bucks.
It can't be just me that didn't attend one big event just cause they didn't feel like right?
Taking pictures of every achievement in life is a necessity. It gives you something to look back to in the future, and to share with family and friends. At times, when I have nothing to do or in the mood of reminiscing the past, I go through my photo album at home. Photos are the only way to remember what happened in our lives because they capture the memories, and moments that matter. Nigerian musician Omah Lay in his song titled 'Reason' said "Are you taking the pictures of every memories of your life?" Your memories donât just stay in your head. Youâll forget most of them without a photo to serve as a reminder. The only exception being that you possess a computer-like brain which no one possessesđ.
But there are times when your mind decides to withdraw from society and prioritize your comfort. It's important to do what feels right for you. Ultimately, what matters most is your happiness and comfort.
All images were taken by me