Is this life truly balanced, as people say that life is not balanced? Why do some people work so hard and struggle in life, yet nothing to show for it? Meanwhile, others don't even have to struggle with anything in this life, and life is easy for them. Just let them do a small business, and you'll see everything start blooming for them. Because someone is suffering today doesn't mean the person will enjoy later in this future; someone can struggle from adulthood to old age. Sometimes, we just don't understand how life works.
My mum was telling me the story of herself when she was small. She struggled as an adult to train herself for school and feed herself because she lost her mum when she was a child, and her father didn't have the capacity to sponsor her to school. So, she lived and struggled on her own to sponsor herself. Though things have changed, she still ends up with a husband that doesn't sponsor any of the children. She lives like a single mother in her husband's house. I just can't stop asking why some people are rich in a rich house, still grow up with no struggle, and still have a happy home. Life is just fair to some and unfair to some.
I've seen people who are hardworking but nothing to show for it, and I've seen people who just relax and have a lot to show. And if we say it's grace, is it that some people don't find grace? This life is just a mystery, and only God can understand. Why can't everyone be lucky?
In the end, it's not about comparing our struggles or successes, but about finding purpose and peace in our own path.