Well, have I got the plan for you!
If you are not using brave, you should be.
Load this extension: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/privacy-redirect/pmcmeagblkinmogikoikkdjiligflglb/related
This extension replaces twitter links with nitter links, it is virtually seamless.
It replaces youtube links with invidious links, it is high maintenance.
Not all links will load properly and sometimes you have to find a work around to find the right way to load the videos.
Annoying, but open source!
It replaces instagram with bibliogram links.
It replaces google maps with open maps.
As you can see it is quite expansive.
The thing I like most is when I go to a post with utub links, instead of utub getting a record of me having loaded the embed, they get nothing.
To cause them to get nothing, sometimes you got to fiddle with the switches to get the video to play.
For me, that is not a deal breaker.
I will be continuing to use this extension, and will give further updates to how development is going.
Here is Nitter's github.
Here is Invidious' github.