I am observant.I observe nature rather than the people around me. This is how the sunset looks like from the window of my room and how it feels when the same sun sets over the water that has accumulated in the cropland. But what calms my mind the most is the sunset at the end of winter.
I observe the growth of plants from saplings and the flow of river water at any time.
I see all the forms of nature in the light that the rise and fall of that light comes to my attention. I get the proof that even stubborn people get cold especially when I see the sun going down.
A little quiet self-reflection may not mean defeat but rather a means of re-energizing, and the sunset proves it, right?