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Deliberately just "your side" of the stairs isn't just a selfish attitude, it's choosing to be that kind of person. Egoism often goes unnoticed as a result of unconscious processes. The problem is being consciously selfish.
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Studies indicate that kindness comes naturally to human beings: selfishness, a choice, and it has a negative impact on our relationships. Selfish behavior is not only immoral, but it is usually detrimental to one's psychological well-being. Selfish people believe that they are entitled to more than other people, and therefore they are more frustrated than other people
As unfair as one person may be to always clean, being true to yourself and at the same time being aware of the type of person you want to be helps keep your head at peace as you do so by being a caring neighbor. Also, the best way to deal with selfish people in your life may not be to wait for them to change on their own, but to give them the opportunity to behave less selfishly by observing their behavior. "Man does evil, because he does not know what good is" - Socrates
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Our culture has a selfish tendency. Therefore, you must be mindful when thinking or behaving selfishly and making the decision to be who you chose to be. "No century has professed selfishness as frankly and starkly as ours" - George Sand
Don't change who you are for other people. Be your best version. What you sow now will reap later.
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goodness begets goodness. Do good, don't choose who.
