A big greeting to all, sharing experiences is nice, we learn from each other and we unburden ourselves, just yesterday I was talking with an acquaintance and he told me with annoyance that one of his sons had sold a car that he had bought at the time with much effort, that this son tended to be so unconcerned about things and that he did not value. He continued telling me several situations that he had lived and that hurt him a lot, I could see that this person had a huge need to be heard because the truth is I never asked him anything, he just started to tell his situation and I just listened to him, this generated that he talked non-stop, on my part I just nodded and from time to time I would say: Really! It can't be! because honestly I didn't have a chance to say much.
Es increible como a veces necesitamos ser escuchados, expresar lo que sentimos. Tal vez sea por mi caracter,soy una persona tranquila, por mi edad, las personas se sienten en confianza y cuando me doy cuenta me están contando sus penas.Sin embargo hay que tener cuidado con esto porque no todo el mundo tiene buenas intenciones, se han visto casos de personas que han confiado en otras y luego han sido sujetos a chantajes, manipulación, han visto como su intimidad ha quedado expuesta ante los demás.
Y no sólo le pasa a los jóvenes quienes son los más vulnerables por sus edades, a adultos y ancianos. A la hora de confiar tus intimidades debes mirar bien. De hecho cuando escribimos en nuestros blogs debemos tomar precauciones porque lo que escribimos en la red permanece,es decisión de cada quien lo que comparte pero hay que tomar en consideración muchos aspectos a la hora de compartir información personal porque no es la primera vez que ocurren situaciones incomodas, hasta peligrosas por información que ha sido expuesta en redes sociales.
It is incredible how sometimes we need to be heard, to express what we feel. Maybe it is because of my character, I am a quiet person, because of my age, people feel confident and when I realize it they are telling me their sorrows. However, you have to be careful with this because not everyone has good intentions, there have been cases of people who have trusted others and then have been subjected to blackmail, manipulation, have seen how their privacy has been exposed to others.
And it does not only happen to young people who are the most vulnerable because of their age, but also to adults and the elderly. When it comes to trusting your intimacies you should look carefully. In fact, when we write in our blogs we must take precautions because what we write on the network remains, it is up to each person to decide what they share but we must take into consideration many aspects when sharing personal information because it is not the first time that uncomfortable situations occur, even dangerous because of information that has been exposed on social networks.
Si tenemos necesidad de conversar con alguien porque atravesamos situaciones dificiles, miremos bien a quien confiamos nuestra intimidad, que esa simple conversación no se convierta en un gran dolor de cabeza luego, porque sería muy triste. Cuando las personas son vulneradas de esa manera, sienten que las exhiben y esto puede causarles serios problemas emocionales, sin embargo quienes hacen esta repudiable acción parece no importarles el sufrimiento ajeno, es mas me atrevería a decir que se nutren con el, algunos hasta se benefician economicamente.
A la hora de contar tus penas y hasta tus logros debes ser precavido, algunos dirán: No, ni loco (a) que estuviera, pero puede pasar porque el ser humano tiende a sentir una necesidad de ser aceptado, de ser visible ante los demás y es vulnerable ante emociones como el ego, los celos, pasiones y otros. A veces sin querer le damos armas a los demás para que actuen y dañen, no quiere decir que todo el mundo sea así pero a veces hay que tener un poco de malicia y mirar un poco mas allá, espero todo funcione bien para ti, hasta un próximo encuentro.
If we need to talk to someone because we are going through difficult situations, let's look carefully to whom we entrust our privacy, so that this simple conversation does not become a big headache later, because it would be very sad. When people are violated in this way, they feel that they are exhibited and this can cause serious emotional problems, however, those who do this despicable action do not seem to care about the suffering of others, I would even dare to say that they feed on it, some even benefit financially.
When it comes to tell your sorrows and even your achievements you should be cautious, some will say: No, not even crazy, but it can happen because the human being tends to feel a need to be accepted, to be visible to others and is vulnerable to emotions such as ego, jealousy, passions and others. Sometimes we unintentionally give weapons to others to act and harm, it does not mean that everyone is like that but sometimes you have to have a little malice and look a little further, I hope everything works out well for you, until a next meeting.
