Greetings community, wishing that the weekend has been of benefit to all, personally I had to accompany my wife to the wake of a lady of the community, very esteemed by the way and as always happens in these situations people commented about the deceased, funny anecdotes because apparently she was very funny, she was helpful, others said that she never lacked that tobacco so characteristic of the fish sellers; The point is that when I returned I commented to my wife about how I would like people to remember me and my fear of passing away and not seeing my youngest children become independent.
y es este uno de mis mayores temores, aunque por lo general vivo mi presente porque mañana puede ser tarde, ese temor está allí y pienso es normal en cualquier persona, estoy agradecido por los años vividos, por tantos momentos felices pero anhelo seguir aquí junto a mi familia. Cuando ese momento llegue espero poder partir tranquilo, disculpa si divago.El punto es que me gustaría que me recuerden bonito en especial mis hijos, no sempre he sido el padre ideal ya que por circunstancias de la vida,no pude estar tan presente en la vida de mis 3 hijos mayores debido al divorcio, mi trabajo, los veía pero obviamente el tiempo no podía ser el de antes,sin embargo con los años he tratado de llevar una relación armónica con mis hijos, los amo muchisimo y eso si , siempre he procurado que todos mis hijos mantengan ese contacto como hermanos que son.
and this is one of my biggest fears, although I usually live my present because tomorrow may be too late, that fear is there and I think it is normal in any person, I am grateful for the years lived, for so many happy moments but I long to be here with my family. The point is that I would like to be remembered beautifully, especially my children, I have not always been the ideal father because due to life circumstances, I could not be so present in the lives of my 3 older children due to divorce, my work, I saw them but obviously the time could not be the same as before, however over the years I have tried to have a harmonious relationship with my children, I love them very much and yes, I have always tried that all my children maintain that contact as brothers that they are.
¿cómo quieres que te recuerden?
how do you want to be remembered?
todo va a depender de tus acciones en este mundo, hay quienes se pasan la vida malgastándola, es decir su vida está ocupada por vicios, conflictos familiares, laborales, por lo general cuando somos jóvenes adoptamos una actitud de "que me importa" y dejamos pasar momentos valiosos . Hay quienes por naturaleza son personas dedicadas a ayudar a otros y se preocupan por aprovechar los buenos momentos, bien por ellos. Amigo lector esta reflexión simplemente tiene como objetivo el que juntos analicemos nuestras acciones hasta ahora, aprovechemos el tiempo de vida que es tan valioso, reforcemos todo lo positivo y cambiemos esas acciones negativas, se trata de dejar bonitos recuerdos en el camino.
everything will depend on your actions in this world, there are those who spend their lives wasting it, that is, their lives are occupied by vices, family conflicts, work, usually when we are young we adopt an attitude of "what do I care" and we let valuable moments pass by. There are those who by nature are people dedicated to helping others and care about taking advantage of good times, good for them. My friend reader, this reflection simply has the objective that together we analyze our actions so far, we take advantage of the time of life that is so valuable, we reinforce all the positive and change those negative actions, it is about leaving beautiful memories along the way.
Aunque tal vez muchos puedan pensar que esto no tiene importancia y es valedero, es su opinión y se respeta, nada mas bonito que dejar huellas en el camino, no ser egoistas y pensar en el que se quedará; los hijos que seguirán tu ejemplo, una madre, una esposa, unos hermanos que al recordarte se fortalecerán por tus meritos, que valorarán cada instante contigo en fin..Aprovecha el tiempo, trata de ser émpatico, respetuoso, haz buenas acciones, procura expresar tus sentimientos bonito, vive sanamente y trata de ser feliz cada día de tu vida.Espero que mi narrativa haya sido agradable para ti, esa es la intención, que tu camino esté llenos de muchos momentos alegres, no dejes de sonreir y tender la mano a quien lo necesite, un gran abrazo.
Although perhaps many may think that this is not important and is valid, it is their opinion and it is respected, nothing more beautiful than to leave footprints on the road, not to be selfish and think of those who will remain; the children who will follow your example, a mother, a wife, siblings who remember you and will be strengthened by your merits, who will value every moment with you, in short.... Take advantage of the time, try to be ethical, respectful, do good deeds, try to express your feelings nicely, live healthy and try to be happy every day of your life, I hope my narrative has been pleasant for you, that is the intention, that your path is full of many happy moments, do not stop smiling and reaching out to those who need it, a big hug.
