Mi Experiencia al Romper Moldes en mi Familia

When we talk about mold, we refer to the behavior that the person has, according to some aspects of their training that begins from childhood, which they adopt according to their family environment, an example could be when we have our children, and the parents They are medical professionals, and they want them to be the same in the future. But it turns out that the children would not like to study medicine, and they are forced to study this career.

Cabe destacar que con el tiempo, se graduán de médicos, pero se sienten que son infelices porque no les gusta nada la profesión que ejercen, llevándolos al fracaso. Soy de los que piensa que cada quien es diferente y no podemos obligar a nuestros hijos que sean iguales a sus padres, es decir ellos van a romper los moldes que están en su grupo familiar, porque serán diferentes en su forma de ser, hasta de comportarse ante la sociedad.

It should be noted that over time, they graduate as doctors, but they feel that they are unhappy because they do not like the profession they practice at all, leading them to failure. I am one of those who thinks that everyone is different and we cannot force our children to be the same as their parents, that is, they are going to break the molds that are in their family group, because they will be different in their way of being, even in terms of behave before society.

A pesar de esto debemos orientar a nuestros hijos, para que primero que nada sean buenos ciudadanos, y que respeten las leyes, no podemos obligarlos a casarse y formar una familia, como lo hice yo. Hoy en día podemos ver como los hijos toman sus propias decisiones cuando son adultos, algunos son reacios a escuchar sugerencias, entonces tenemos que dejarlos que vivan sus propias experiencias para que experimenten las cosas que pasan en su entorno.

Despite this, we must guide our children, so that first of all they are good citizens, and that they respect the laws, we cannot force them to get married and start a family, as I did. Nowadays we can see how children make their own decisions when they are adults, some are reluctant to listen to suggestions, so we have to let them live their own experiences so that they experience the things that happen in their environment.

Ahora bien, recuerdo que desde mi infancia mis padres mi inculcaron que estudiara y me formara como un profesional, para ejercer lo que estudie. Mi padre tuvo como profesión fue chofer de autobus y después de chofer de camión, con el tiempo nos graduamos y no conseguíamos trabajo, entonces mi padre decía, que si no hubiese enseñado a manejar, tuviese un poco de camiones alrededor de la casa. En este caso se rompió el molde, porque yo no hice el mismo trabajo que quería mi padre, pero fui diferente al tener una profesión para ejercerla más adelante.

Now, I remember that from my childhood my parents instilled in me that I study and train myself as a professional, to practice what I study. My father's profession was a bus driver and then a truck driver. Over time we graduated and we couldn't get a job, so my father said that if he hadn't taught driving, he would have a few trucks around the house. In this case the mold was broken, because I did not do the same job that my father wanted, but I was different by having a profession to pursue later.

Por otro lado, a mis padres les gustaba el deporte del beisbol, pero a mi nunca me gusto, y desde bachillerato me dedique a practicar el deporte del maratón, en donde tuve la oportunidad de viajar a diferentes estados de Venezuela para participar en diferentes competencias de maratones. Es decir que rompí el molde familiar, y no hice lo que deseaba mi padre a nivel deportivo, pero si recibí su apoyo en esta práctica deportiva.

On the other hand, my parents liked the sport of baseball, but I never liked it, and since high school I dedicated myself to practicing the sport of the marathon, where I had the opportunity to travel to different states of Venezuela to participate in different competitions. of marathons. That is to say, I broke the family mold, and I did not do what my father wanted on a sporting level, but I did receive his support in this sporting practice.

Así mismo mi hijo, en la actualidad desde los tres años, le gustaba el futbol, y para apoyarlo, lo incluimos en una escuela deportiva para aprender futbol, hoy en día ha participado en diferentes torneos deportivos de futsal, representando al equipo de Fundación, de la comunidad donde vivimos.

Likewise, my son, currently since he was three years old, liked soccer, and to support him, we included him in a sports school to learn soccer, today he has participated in different futsal sports tournaments, representing the Foundation team, of the community where we live.

Para finalizar, cada persona rompe los moldes, lo que debemos es orientar a nuestros hijos, empezando por su comportamiento y respetar a las demás personas. Espero que les haya gustado, nos vemos en una próxima publicación.Si deseas participar, aquí te dejo las bases de la iniciativa

Finally, each person breaks the mold, what we must do is guide our children, starting with their behavior and respecting other people. I hope you liked it, see you in a future publication. If you want to participate, here are the bases of the initiative

Fotografías: Teléfono Redmi Note 10
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Traductor utilizado: Traductor de Google

Photos: Redmi Note 10 Phone
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Translator used: Translator used: Google Translate

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