Desnuda/Naked.(Esp/Eng)

Hay ciertas personas ( amigos, familiares, parejas), con las que nos desahogamos, porque están dispuestos a escucharnos cuando no estamos bien y queremos desalojar un problema de nuestro interior, ya sea en busca de un consejo imparcial o solo de eso, de soltar ese peso que cargamos y nos daña.
Los asuntos que compartimos podrían ser dolorosos, además de ser muy privados y pudieran exponer cosas que quizás otras personas guardan para si mismos porque nos afectan demasiado y nos haria lucir(según su criterio) vulnerables o débiles debido a que nos arranca un llanto espontáneo que se piensa(incorrectamente a mi modo de ver) que debe suceder donde nadie te vea.
Otra vez no, soy como soy y mi manera de expresarme en un determinado momento es la que mi cuerpo y mi alma necesiten y si hay que llorar para limpiar y sacar todo de adentro, pues se llora y no pasa nada, frente a quien sea, que llorar es humano, y no define el grado de fortaleza o debilidad de ninguna persona

El silencio final.

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Ejemplos podría haber más, pero ya con estos 2 creo haber establecido mi punto de vista, ¿no creés?
Ella, mi mente, no dijo nada y créanme, el silencio en ella no es algo común, así que supongo que al menos esto lo haya entendido y deje de acusarme de desnudos desprevenidos e impuestos ante extraños.

La integridad y la fortaleza de mente y espíritu que construimos sobre la base de la personalidad que hemos creado a partir de los preceptos, códigos y criterios que defendemos no están para nada en peligro porque nos mostremos, cuando lo decidamos, tan reales y tan desnudos como queramos, esto último metafóricamente, o no, depende del momento a compartir, jajaja, 😉.

My mind and I had a long conversation the other night, I had to get tough with her... she wants to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, she won't let me sleep when she comes up with an idea in the middle of the night and now she's decided to accuse me of things that don't make sense and she says it's an abuse of power on my part, taking advantage of the fact that I'm the owner.
Do you know what she told me yesterday? She told me, all upset and gesticulating, that the next time I was going to undress her, or rather, strip her down to her underwear without her consent in front of a bunch of unknown Hivers who could very well be vicious with dirty minds (her words, not mine), I could at least have the decency to warn her so she wouldn't put on her old panties with the gaps in the back and wear decent bras so she wouldn't be embarrassed in front of total strangers. She says that because of the last post I made for the #wekend-engagement of the weekend-experiences community.

She says that if I'm going to be doing that kind of thing now, we'll be revealing intimate details that would expose us to everyone knowing our weaknesses or vulnerabilities and that could be used against us to harm.

So, in total disagreement with her, I decided to give her this explanation to see if she could understand my approach. With your permission, dear readers, I'll tell you as if I were talking to her...yes, with my messed up and twisting mind.

** Pay attention and listen for a moment, my dear.**

Honesty, sincerity, sensitivity and the openness of our mind, soul and heart to whomever and whenever we decide to do it is something very beautiful, enriching and far from making us more vulnerable, on the contrary, I firmly believe that it strengthens us. Sharing our feelings only takes a weight off our shoulders, our strength does not weaken because we express coherently and truthfully what we feel, no matter how personal and private what you share may seem to you. Secrets are nothing more than a heavy burden that we do not need to carry.

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A couple of examples...

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Expressing Love

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When you love a person, telling them, showing them and expressing your love with all the transparency and intensity you want, does not mean that you are at their mercy and that they can do with you whatever they want, it doesn't mean that if that person betrayed you, you would not be able to react in the right way because you are under some hypnotic influence induced by your emotional nakedness, no, our way of acting is defined by our ethical and moral codes, and by our own definition of what is right or wrong, not by what we feel and choose to share in a real and transparent way, because in addition, every person deserves to know how you feel about them.

Crying out problems.

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There are certain people (friends, family, partners) with whom we vent, because they are willing to listen to us when we are not well and we want to get rid of a problem inside us, either in search of impartial advice or just that, to release that weight that we carry and hurts us.
The issues we share could be painful, in addition to being very private and could expose things that perhaps other people keep to themselves because they affect us too much and would make us look (according to their criteria) vulnerable or weak because it makes us burst into spontaneous tears that are thought (incorrectly in my opinion) to happen where no one sees you.
Not again, I am who I am and my way of expressing myself at a given moment is what my body and soul need and if I have to cry to clean and get everything out inside, then I cry and nothing happens, in front of whoever, because crying is human, and does not define the degree of strength or weakness of any person

The final silence.

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There could be more examples, but with these 2 I think I've established my point, don't you think? She, my mind, said nothing and believe me, silence is not common in her, so I guess she at least understood this and stopped accusing me of unprepared and imposed nudity before strangers.

The integrity and strength of mind and spirit that we build on the basis of the personality we have created from the precepts, codes and criteria that we defend are not at all in danger because we show ourselves, when we decide, as real and as naked as we want, the latter metaphorically, or not, depends on the moment to share, hahaha, 😉.

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UNTIL NEXT TIME.

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_{Love yourself and love, respectyourself and respect, always give the best of yourself without specting anything in return and remember... never do to anyone what you don't like to be done to yourself.}

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_{Text traslated to english with DeepL App}