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En las familias siempre hay patrones que siempre los padres quieren que sus hijos sigan o quieren que mejoren en algo que lo padres no lograron realizar. Yo crecí en una familia bastante conservadora; mi padre era un hombre de un carácter muy fuerte y siempre nos decía que mejor estábamos en casa para evitar que nos pasara algo. Pienso que este comportamiento de sobreprotección que yo tuve con mis padres lo llevo conmigo y considero que si influencio en mi crianza y soy actualmente con mis hijos una madre sobre protectora con mis hijos; a veces pienso que tengo que confiar un poco mas ya que no me gusta que mis pequeños estén en lugares donde no esté su madre o su padre. A veces me paso; pero creo es un proceso de dejar de ser tan sobre protectora con mi familia.
En mi hogar siempre se decía que las mujeres se tenían que casar por la iglesia vestida de blanco; esto lo escuchaba pero mis padres no eran casados; yo siempre pensaba en casarme así y realmente así fue; me case como quería mi familia y yo también. Lo único que cuando sucedió este evento ya no tenía a mi padre conmigo.
En mi caso mi familia ha sido parte de mi influencia; pero es porque así lo he querido; ya que no soy de las personas que se dejan imponer; simplemente realizo las cosas que me hacen sentir muy bien. En mi caso me siento complacida de la manera que mis padres me criaron y que hoy en día, gracias a ellos y a esos aprendizajes e influencias soy lo que soy.
Me despido y nos vemos en una próxima publicación
Gracias por Leerme
English version
Greetings friends, looking at the Holos&Lotus feed, I saw an initiative that caught my attention because of its theme; Family beliefs and how they have influenced you. This initiative is created by
In families there are always patterns that parents always want their children to follow or want them to improve in something that the parents were unable to do. I grew up in a fairly conservative family; My father was a man with a very strong character and he always told us that we had better stay at home to prevent something from happening to us. I think that this overprotective behavior that I had with my parents I carry with me and I consider that it did influence my upbringing and I am currently an overprotective mother with my children; Sometimes I think I have to trust a little more since I don't like my little ones to be in places where their mother or father is not. Sometimes it happens to me; but I think it's a process to stop being so overprotective of my family.
In my home it was always said that women had to get married in the church dressed in white; I heard this but my parents were not married; I always thought of getting married like this and it really was like that; I got married as my family wanted and so did I. The only thing that when this event happened I no longer had my father with me.
In my case, my family has been part of my influence; but it is because that is how I wanted it; since I am not one of the people who allow themselves to be imposed; I just do the things that make me feel great. In my case, I am pleased with the way my parents raised me and that today, thanks to them and those learnings and influences, I am what I am.
I say goodbye and see you in a next publication
Thanks for reading me