El problema es ... Que el tiempo no perdona y cuando nos damos cuenta, resulta nos hemos perdido el cumpleaños de un familiar, el último evento de nuestro hijo y vaya que duele pero... Es que siempre salen los peros a relucir, actuando como evasión de aspectos de nuestra vida que estamos descuidando, para justificar nuestros errores, es momento de cambiar eso.
Pienso que todos tenemos la oportunidad de rectificar, aprender de las fallas y fortalecer lo bonito que tenemos, llamése familia, afectos, amigos, oportunidades, proyectos, en fin, todos tenemos algo de esto y nos fortalece. Importante tomarnos ese tiempo para mirar realmente a nuestro alrededor y no por encima. Hace varios años tomé la decisión de priorizar mi salud, mi familia nuclear y estos últimos años he fortalecido aún más los lazos con esto, aunque siempre he sido muy alegre, ahora lo soy más porque me he permitido estar más cerca de mi esposo e hijos, me liberé de un sistema laboral que me oprimía y ahora soy mi propia jefa, mejor imposible.
What's up friends, it's been a while since I've shared experiences and reflections in the community. The decisions we make have their consequences, whether positive or negative. In the middle of a conversation with a friend a few days ago, it came up the time we share with our loved ones, how many times our work occupations take us away from the ones we love the most, and sometimes without wanting to end up absorbed in thousands of things.
The problem is ... Time is unforgiving and when we realize it, it turns out that we have missed the birthday of a family member, the last event of our child and it hurts but.... The buts always come up, acting as an evasion of aspects of our life that we are neglecting, to justify our mistakes, it's time to change that.
I think we all have the opportunity to rectify, learn from our failures and strengthen the beautiful things we have, called family, affections, friends, opportunities, projects, in short, we all have some of this and it strengthens us. It is important to take that time to really look around us and not over us. Several years ago I made the decision to prioritize my health, my nuclear family and these last years I have strengthened even more the ties with this, although I have always been very cheerful, now I am more so because I have allowed myself to be closer to my husband and children, I freed myself from a labor system that oppressed me and now I am my own boss, better impossible.
La tranquilidad y satisfacción personal no tiene precio, siempre hay un camino alterno, una salida, sólo es cuestión de dar el paso. Se me viene a la mente un corito de un programa popular: "Tu tomaste tus decisiones...mientrás yo tomé las mías", cada persona tiene libre albeldrío, sin embargo esas decisiones que se toman deben ser bien pensadas y justas.
Nuestro bienestar es fundamental, no podemos caer en círculos viciosos, permanecer en espacios, junto a personas que nos incomodan o dañan. Amarnos como somos, con nuestras virtudes y defectos nos nutre y da seguridad. Es el momento de dar ese paso tan importante, sin miedo al éxito diría mi amiga, es la idea, atrevernos a ..Dar ese paso tan importante en nuestras vidas, en lo personal, en esta etapa de mi vida, hay apertura para proyectos que antes no pude hacer por el factor tiempo, así que simplemente me dejo llevar sin perder el rumbo del barco donde soy la capitana, es mi vida y no permito que otros tomen decisiones por mi, todo se conversa, se acuerda, pensando en el bien común, dando paso al respeto, al amor, la confianza.
Vida, como te amo, me aplaudo, me valoro, la vida es bella y siempre valdrá la pena vivirla. Me abrazo en mis recuerdos de ese pasado que me ha traido hasta acá, me abrazo en el presente y en tantos momentos buenos y malos. Futuro sorpréndeme en positivo, ¡hasta pronto, gracias por leer!
Fotos propias, teléfono Redmi Note11, ediciones en Canva. Usé traductor DeepL.com
The tranquility and personal satisfaction is priceless, there is always an alternative path, a way out, it is just a matter of taking the step. A chorus from a popular program comes to mind: “You made your decisions...while I made mine”, each person has free will, however those decisions that are made must be well thought out and fair.
Our wellbeing is fundamental, we cannot fall into vicious circles, stay in spaces, next to people who bother or harm us. Loving ourselves as we are, with our virtues and defects nourishes us and gives us security. It is time to take that important step, without fear of success, my friend, is the idea, dare to ... Take that important step in our lives, personally, at this stage of my life, there is openness for projects that before I could not do for the time factor, so I just let myself go without losing the course of the ship where I am the captain, it is my life and I do not allow others to make decisions for me, everything is discussed, agreed, thinking about the common good, giving way to respect, love, trust.
Life, as I love you, I applaud myself, I value myself, life is beautiful and will always be worth living. I embrace myself in my memories of that past that has brought me here, I embrace myself in the present and in so many good and bad moments. Future surprise me in a positive way, see you soon, thanks for reading!
Own photos, Redmi Note11 phone, editions in Canva. I used translator DeepL.com
