Hola, linda comunidad de Hive, hoy vengo a hablarles de como una persona me logro sacar del oscuro agujero en donde me encontraba y me salvo. Quisiera darles esperanza y fe a todos.
El chico de la foto, es mi marido actualmente, tambien escribe mucho en esta comunidad, Se llama Constantino, es venezolano griego y les contare como me salvo. Tal vez piensen: "tiene apego emocional con su novio", pero no, no se trata de apego emocional, se trata de una realidad.
Hace casi 4 años lo conoci, me envio una solicitud de amistad mediante la red social Facebook y lo acepte, siempre he sido muy social, estoy diagnosticada con depresion clinica, ansiedad y estres post traumatico y en ese momento cuando lo conoci, estaba pasando por un cuadro depresivo demasiado fuerte, habia terminado hace meses con la persona que pense que me iba a casar (gracias a Dios no lo hice), perdi mi trabajo, estaba en quiebra y no habia nada que pudiera hacer, el tiene muchos estudios en psicologia, asi que comenzo ayudandome con mis problemas y debo decirles, que este señor me ayudo mas de lo que me ha ayudado un psicologo certificado.
Fue la primera persona en no juzgarme, no culparme, hacerme entender que todo pasa porque debe de pasar, que no fue mi culpa todo lo que me paso y que era amada, lo que yo no sabia era que el que me amaba era el y yo tambien lo amaba a el, conocerlo fue como... si me cayera un rayo, me impacto en el momento, no se que fue pero lo que sea que senti, me atrajo hacia el enseguida.
Desde entonces, solo vinieron buenos sentimientos, cosas lindas, hermosos recuerdos que aun seguimos creando.
Esta foto tiene un significado especial, en octubre del año pasado, sucedio algo muy fuerte en mi casa y la que salio mas afectada fui yo, cai en un cuadro depresivo fuertisimo de nuevo, no habia estado en uno asi desde hace mucho tiempo, y, adivinen quien fue el que estuvo alli para mi y ayudarme a sanar? el, obviamente, me dio su manos, nos tendimos las manos de esa manera, y el me dijo "poyo", haciendo referencia al apoyo y desde entonces cuando uno necesita del otro, uno le tiende la mano al otro y dice "poyo".
Gente, si llega algo mejor, despues de la marea, que creemos que nos va a ahogar, llega algo mejor, yo pase casi 3 años en una relacion con un hombre totalmente orgulloso, narcisista, engreido que me hizo sentir muy mal por mucho tiempo y yo pensaba que nadie mas me iba a querer, de hecho cuando el decidio dejarme, dijo que lo hacia porque "yo estoy enferma y el no podia mas con eso y no vale la pena gastar tiempo en una persona con trastornos mentales porque es demasiado molesto".
Me hirio demasiado y me hizo creer que nadie mas me iba a querer mas nunca y meses despues, conoci a Constantino. El me saco de donde estaba, sano mis heridas, no me castiga con silencio cuando veia que me hacia daño, no me juzga por tener problemas, pide una disculpa cuando debe hacerlo, tiene responsabilidad afectiva, me cuida y lo mejor, me trata como a una princesa, me tiene muy malcriada, pero no malcriada de cosas materiales y dinero, malcriada de amor, cariño y mimos.
Esa foto es muy graciosa ya que, ese dia hice una rica sopa (que a el le encanta, por cierto) y tambien habia hecho galletas que el ama con locura tambien, basicamente todo lo que cocino le gusta y le gusto tanto, que pueden ver como se toma la sopa y se come la galleta al mismo tiempo.
Asi que, basicamente, aqui esta mi mensaje de esperanza para todos ustedes: Crean, por lo que mas quieran, crean, no dejen de creer, no pierdan la fe, no suelten el amor, estoy segura de que todos ustedes tienen mucho amor para dar y si alguien no lo valora, pues vayanse, por muy dificil que sea, si hay alguien mas alla afuera que los va a amar con mucha intensidad, si hay quien los valore, si hay quien no los juzgue, crean, sientan, tengan fe, todo lo bueno siempre llega despues de lo malo, recuerden que lo malo que nos pasa, es solo para prepararnos, por muy fuerte que sea y luego, nos dan lo que mas queremos. Para quienes no lo tienen aun, se que conoceran a alguien que los va a amar con tanta intensidad que no les cabra el amor en el pecho y para los que ya lo tienen, no lo suelten, no pierdan algo hermoso por tonterias, amense mucho y recuerden darse muy poyo.
Espero que les haya gustado mi post y le sirva a las personas que poco a poco han ido perdiendo la fe, yo se lo que se siente, he estado ahi, pero se sale de ahi. Muchas gracias por leer y hasta la proxima, muchas bendiciones.
Thanking those who gave me their hand.
Hello, beautiful Hive community, today I come to talk about how a person managed to get me out of the dark hole where I was and saved me. I would like to give everyone hope and faith.
The boy in the photo is currently my husband, he also writes a lot in this community, his name is Constantino, he is a Greek Venezuelan and I will tell you how I was saved. You may think: "she is emotionally attached to her boyfriend", but no, it is not emotional attachment, it is a reality.
I met him almost 4 years ago, he sent me a friend request through the social network Facebook and I accepted it, I have always been very social, I am diagnosed with clinical depression, anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder and at that moment when I met him, I was going through I had a very strong depressive picture, I had ended months ago with the person I thought I was going to marry (thank God I didn't), I lost my job, I was bankrupt and there was nothing I could do, he has many studies in psychology So he started helping me with my problems and I must tell you that this gentleman helped me more than a certified psychologist has helped me.
He was the first person to not judge me, not blame me, make me understand that everything happens because it must happen, that everything that happened to me was not my fault and that I was loved, what I did not know was that he was the one who loved me and I loved him too, meeting him was like... if I was struck by lightning, it struck me at the moment, I don't know what it was but whatever I felt, it attracted me to him right away.
Since then, only good feelings have come, beautiful things, beautiful memories that we are still creating.
This photo has a special meaning, in October of last year, something very strong happened in my house and the one who was most affected was me, I fell into a very strong depressive picture again, I had not been in one like this for a long time, and Guess who was there for me and helped me heal? He obviously gave me his hands, we held out our hands that way, and he told me "poyo", referring to support and since then when one needs the other, one extends his hand to the other and says "poyo" .
People, if something better comes, after the tide, which we believe is going to drown us, something better comes, I spent almost 3 years in a relationship with a totally proud, narcissistic, conceited man who made me feel very bad for a long time and I thought that no one else was going to love me, in fact when he decided to leave me, he said that he did it because "I'm sick and he couldn't take it anymore and it's not worth wasting time on a person with mental disorders because it's too much annoying".
It hurt me too much and made me believe that no one else was going to love me anymore and months later, I met Constantino. He got me out of where I was, he healed my wounds, he doesn't punish me with silence when he saw that I was hurting me, he doesn't judge me for having problems, he apologizes when he should, he has emotional responsibility, he takes care of me and best of all, he treats me like To a princess, she has me very spoiled, but not spoiled with material things and money, spoiled with love, affection and pampering.
That photo is very funny because, that day I made a delicious soup (which he loves, by the way) and I had also made cookies that he loves madly too, basically everything I cook he likes and likes it so much, that you can see how he drinks the soup and eats the cookie at the same time.
So, basically, here is my message of hope for all of you: Believe, for all you want, believe, don't stop believing, don't lose faith, don't let go of love, I'm sure that all of you have a lot of love to give and if someone doesn't value it, then leave, no matter how difficult it is, if there is someone else out there who is going to love you very intensely, if there is someone who values you, if there is someone who does not judge you, believe, feel, have faith, everything the good always comes after the bad, remember that the bad that happens to us is only to prepare us, however strong it may be, and then they give us what we want the most. For those who do not have it yet, I know that they will meet someone who will love them with such intensity that love will not fit in their chest and for those who already have it, do not let go, do not lose something beautiful for nonsense, love each other a lot and remember to give each other very support.
I hope you liked my post and it helps people who little by little have been losing faith, I know what it feels like, I've been there, but it gets out of there. Thank you very much for reading and until next time, many blessings.