Saludos, amigos de la comunidad Hive account@holos-lotus, hoy vengo a dejar un tema de reflexión que me hace agradecer a Dios Cada día. Cada uno de nosotros, desde su perspectiva, ve la vida de una manera diferente. La vida inicia y en ella vamos adoptando un comportamiento un poco equilibrado en cuanto a los aprendizajes que vamos adquiriendo en el camino.

Somos nosotros los encargados de aprender y hacer valer nuestros derechos, aunque muchas veces nos cueste. Se vienen a mi mente tantas situaciones por las cuales he pasado y que gracias a mis padres, amistades, familiares, lecturas realizadas y tantas horas de reflexión a solas, me han ayudado a ir entendiendo, que en este transitar por el camino que me tocó pasar, fue para aprender. Somos nosotros los encargados de hacer de nuestra vida algo agradable, así pasemos cosas feas.

Es por ello que hablar de las circunstancias de la vida, no se me hace difícil, porque lo describo desde mi propia perspectiva, dando paso a todo lo que sea positivo y dejando atrás lo negativo por mas fuerte que me tocara vivirlo, así fuesen cosas feas y desagradables; pero siempre superadas, gracias al amor de Dios y la amistad verdadera que de verdad sé que existe.

En todo el recorrido que he realizado en mis lugares de trabajo he conocido personas que tienen comportamientos que se alejan de mi manera de ser, sobre todo personas de baja autoestima, persona envidiosas, arrogantes, pedantes, de malos gestos en su cara, y pare usted de contar, que son personas que vienen cargadas de toda la energía negativa que se puede imaginar en la vida de ellos, pero no me he dejado dañar, sigo siendo yo, sin dejarme arrastrar a su mundo.

Todo esto me ha enseñado de una manera precisa, a ser cada día, la persona que Dios hizo de mí, antes de traerme a este mundo. Cargarme cada día de más humildad, de más empatía, de más amor al prójimo, de más alegría, y sobre todo de ser una mano amiga para ayudar al prójimo, lo que un día me negaron, lo doy sin pensar, aunque no sea con quien lo hizo.

En la situación, que vivimos durante la pandemia, estaba un poco difícil conseguir una serie de alimentos, y andábamos como que sumergidos en los problemas, pero en medio de tanta situación siempre me mantuve de pie con la fe puesta en Dios, sabía que él iba a ser el encargado de proveer, cada vez que oraba solo le pedía: «Dios mío ayúdame, te lo pido por mí, por mi familia, por mis compañeros de trabajo, y por mis amigos, porque sé que todos estamos viviendo esta situación difícil, te prometo que de cada cosa que tú me proveas ayudaré al necesitado de lo poco que consiga o de lo mucho compartiré con ellos».

Y así lo hice porque tenía el compromiso de cumplirme a mí misma esa promesa, de ayudar al prójimo por todo lo que viví en ese momento, aprendí a querer más, ayudar más, aunque tenga poco, y amar desde el corazón, no soy Dios para ser mejor que él, pero si está en mis manos ayudar, así lo haré.

En esos momentos de escases no se conseguía harina, no se conseguía pasta, no se conseguía aceite, una serie de productos que de verdad en este momento prefiero no recordar, jamas olvido (sin rencor les cuento) que en una oportunidad, le dije a una amiga: «oye te consiguieron harina Pan», para ese momento ver un paquete de esta harina blanca o amarilla, era la gloria (risas). Esa amiga me dijo: «sí pero las bendiciones no se comparten, así que no puedo darte, ni venderte un kilo, porque me costó sacrificio conseguirlo y si Dios me lo envió, es una bendición solo para mi». Yo quedé sorprendida por la respuesta recibida.

Aprendí que siempre debemos tender la mano a quien de verdad nos necesite y no a personas que solamente se acercan para hacernos sentir mal. Por eso hoy, quise dejar esta entrada, porque con frecuencia se viven tantas situaciones, y no podemos olvidar nuestras experiencias que nos han mostrado como sacar lo mejor de lo peor.

Felicidades amigos de esta comunidad, solo me queda recordarles que de lo negativo que hayan vivido traten de sacar lo positivo para ustedes y para alegrar el día a los demás. Feliz domingo.

English Version

Greetings, friends of the Hive account@holos-lotus community, today I come to leave a topic of reflection that makes me thank God every day. Each one of us, from his or her perspective, sees life in a different way. Life begins and in it we adopt a somewhat balanced behavior in terms of the learning we acquire along the way.

It is up to us to learn and assert our rights, even if it is often difficult. So many situations come to mind that I have been through and that, thanks to my parents, friends, family, readings and so many hours of reflection alone, have helped me to understand that this journey I had to go through was for learning. It is up to us to make our lives pleasant, even if we go through bad things.

That is why talking about life's circumstances is not difficult for me, because I describe it from my own perspective, giving way to everything that is positive and leaving behind the negative, no matter how hard it was for me to live through it, even if they were ugly and unpleasant things; but always overcome, thanks to the love of God and the true friendship that I truly know exists.

Throughout the journey I have made in my workplaces, I have met people who have behaviors that are far from my way of being, especially people with low self-esteem, envious, arrogant, pedantic people, with bad gestures on their faces, and stop counting, they are people who come loaded with all the negative energy that can be imagined in their lives, but I have not let myself be hurt, I continue being me, without letting myself be dragged into their world.

All of this has taught me in a precise way, to be every day, the person that God made me, before bringing me into this world. To fill myself every day with more humility, more empathy, more love for my neighbor, more joy, and above all to be a helping hand to help others. What was once denied to me, I give without thinking, even if it is not to the person who did it.

In the situation we were living during the pandemic, it was a little difficult to get a series of foods, and we were kind of immersed in problems, but in the midst of so much situation I always stood up with faith in God, I knew that he was going to be the one in charge of providing, every time I prayed I only asked him: "My God help me, I ask you for myself, for my family, for my coworkers, and for my friends, because I know that we are all living through this difficult situation, I promise you that with everything you provide me I will help those in need with the little I get or the most I will share with them."

And so I did because I was committed to fulfilling that promise to myself, to help others for everything I experienced at that time, I learned to love more, to help more, even if I have little, and to love from the heart, I am not God to be better than him, but if it is in my hands to help, I will do so.

In those times of scarcity, there was no flour, no pasta, no oil, a series of products that I really prefer not to remember at this moment. I will never forget (I tell you without rancor) that on one occasion, I said to a friend: “Hey, did you get Pan flour?” At that moment, seeing a package of this white or yellow flour was heaven (laughs). That friend told me: “Yes, but blessings are not shared, so I cannot give you or sell you a kilo, because it cost me a sacrifice to get it and if God sent it to me, it is a blessing only for me.” I was surprised by the response I received.

This left a mark on me for a moment, but I told myself that this person is empty, he never had love from his family, and he simply repeats a pattern of behavior that he may have had since his childhood, something that my parents did not teach me. Despite only having a sixth grade education and a mother who never learned to read, I saw them as my heroes. They taught me the most important values, which are: love for one's neighbor, helping those who truly need it, and humility and tolerance.

I learned that we should always reach out to those who really need us and not to people who only come to make us feel bad. That is why today, I wanted to leave this entry, because so many situations happen so often, and we cannot forget our experiences that have shown us how to make the best of the worst.

Congratulations, friends of this community. I just have to remind you that from the negative things you have experienced, try to take something positive for yourself and to brighten the day for others. Happy Sunday.