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Hablando de culpas, es algo que no siempre es sencillo de aceptar, siempre es más fácil echarle la culpa a otro para aliviar las cargas, recuerdo que cuando estaba pequeña tenía una compañera de estudio que cuando le pasaba algo malo sea un examen o alguna actividad que estuviéramos juntas solía echarme la culpa de que si algo salía mal era porque yo no hice eso o porque no la ayude, cualquier excusa que pudiera conseguir para decir que yo era la culpable de no haber salido todo como quería, y en su momento pensaba que la culpa era ello, que era ocasionado por otra persona, no por uno mismo, que dejar que otro impusiera esa culpa era apoyarle porque quizás si hubiese intervenido las cosas hubiesen sido distintas, pero ¿realmente es así?
Luego fui entendiendo que cada cosa que uno hace, piensa o decide, a la final lo hace uno mismo, mientras no sea obligado o presionado por otra persona, si uno mismo lo realiza a la final el que tiene la culpa es uno mismo, y aunque por facilidad se busca echarle la culpa a otro porque se siente que aceptando uno mismo el error te hace sentir peor, a la final es lo mejor, porque aceptar la culpa de nuestros propios actos nos hace sentir lo que realmente pasamos por ese momentos, nos hace comprender más lo que somos, nuestras fallas, nuestras malas decisiones, quizás en su momento se siente como una carga pesada que parece no poder sobrellevar, pero que cuando se es aceptada, a la final se vuelve ligera y es más fácil de superar, de comprender que hay cosas que hay que saber aceptar para poder continuar, cargas que hay que saber asumir siempre y cuando sean las de uno mismo.
Cargar las culpas de otros si es una carga súper pesada, una que no se puede permitir llevar, porque a la final cada uno es consciente y debe hacerse cargo de sus culpas, el adjudicar o cargar por cuenta propia las culpas de otros no es algo que hace bien, al contrario, impides tanto que uno mismo se supere y continuo en tranquilidad su vida, así como dejar que la persona se conozca y sea mejor para no volver a cometer ese error o mal que lo hizo sentirse culpable, en la vida se cometen muchas fallas que nos hacen sentir culpables de todo lo que hacemos y decimos, pero así es la vida, ensayo y error, aceptar nuestras culpas, aprender de ello y superarlas para poder continuar por el mejor camino y seguir forjando uno que no esté lleno de culpas.
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Speaking of blame, it's not always easy to accept. It's always easier to blame someone else to lighten the load. I remember when I was little, I had a classmate who, whenever something bad happened to her, whether it was a test or some activity we were doing together, she would blame me, saying that if something went wrong, it was because I didn't do this or that, or because I didn't help her. any excuse she could come up with to say that I was to blame for things not turning out the way she wanted. At the time, I thought that guilt was caused by someone else, not by oneself, and that letting someone else impose that guilt on me was supporting them because maybe if I had intervened, things would have been different. But is that really the case?
Then I began to understand that everything one does, thinks or decides, in the end one does it oneself, as long as one is not forced or pressured by another person, if one does it oneself in the end the one who is to blame is oneself, and although it is easy to try to blame someone else because one feels that accepting one's mistake makes one feel worse, in the end it is the best, because accepting the blame for our own actions makes us feel what we really went through in those moments, it makes us understand more about who we are, our failures, our bad things. decisions, perhaps at the time it feels like a heavy burden that it seems one cannot bear, but when it is accepted, in the end it becomes light and is easier to overcome, to understand that there are things that one must know how to accept in order to continue, burdens that one must know how to assume as long as they are one's own.
Carrying the faults of others is a super heavy burden, one that cannot be allowed to carry, because in the end each person is aware and must take responsibility for their faults, assigning or carrying the faults of others on one's own is not something that is good, on the contrary, it prevents one from overcoming oneself and continuing one's life in peace, as well as allowing the person to know themselves and be better so as not to repeat that mistake or evil that made them feel guilty, in life many mistakes are made that make us feel guilty of everything we do and say, but that's life, trial and error, accepting our faults, learning from it and overcoming them to be able to continue on the best path and continue forging one that is not full of guilt.
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