A day can be more beautiful and memorable if we spend time with the people we love. It does improve not only our mental health but also the relationship that we have with each other. The presence of each other can create strong emotional support for both of you through life‘s challenges. Spending time with your love is a way of supporting and boosting your happiness level.
This is why I love being around my partner because it promotes our bonds, bringing us comfort. Spending even a little time with him proves how much I care and how important he is in my life, even how busy we are in our job. So we always ensure we find time for each other and have a good conversation.
One afternoon, my partner and I decided to stroll around. Then we find a beautiful spot of sunset around the place. While taking some pictures, we have our conversations of realizations about our relationship, and here are some:
Patience:
We talk about patience. Over the past nine years of our relationship, we faced many challenges. We’re both human; we have our imperfections, we are flawed, and we messed up. We talked about our attitudes, and suddenly he thanked me because of my patience. Yes, I am more into patience when it comes to his attitude, he is the type of person you cannot deal with quickly, and only I can handle it. But I also thanked him because of being so understanding towards my moods and rants.
Understanding:
Maybe we cannot come this far if we have no understanding; we talked about the past years of our life together and realized how much we’ve changed from being so immature to a mature way of understanding each change we have. We know that we have our own life outside our relationship and must grow individually simultaneously. So knowledge about time, the nature of our work, and the people around us make our relationship work.
Love:
We also mentioned the love that we have, and we come to realize that love alone is not enough in a relationship. Because love is not always about happy moments and excitement about spark, there comes a time that we feel tired of each other, that the spark will go, and we think mad at each other. Love is also about the decision; it’s all about choosing each other every day; even how rough your situation you have, you still decide to stay to work it out together. For us, the words, I choose you every day is better than I love you always.
**These are the vines of realization under the beautiful sunset. This moment makes me realize that having good communication in a beautiful place with your partner makes the conversation more memorable and worthy of remembering.
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