We have seen many times that most of the housewives of this house serve food to others without eating it themselves. Which seems very natural to us and we have seen this done by our mothers in our house as well. However, there is a very big issue to think about here. Because if you serve food to others without eating it yourself, you will suffer and have to go hungry, but will that person get anything in return? We have seen most of the time that those who serve food to others without eating it themselves are the ones who end up suffering and neglecting themselves. Many times, housewives of the house always give others food if there is less vegetables or a good piece of fish or a good piece of meat and they eat the leftovers, but in return, they do not get any appreciation or love from the family. Somehow, the family members think that it is their duty to eat this leftover. In fact, many things are imposed on the housewives as a duty, which is completely inhumane and a very bad thing.
We all want to eat good food, everyone needs good food and nutritious food. But most of the time we see that even though everyone else in the house eats good food and nutritious food, the housewives of the house cannot eat such good food in any way or they do not have much time left for them. After giving it to everyone, they often run out of time, which is why they cannot eat good food for a long time. It is seen in the house that at the end of the day, the body is getting weak and they are getting sick a lot because they do not eat various good foods and abandon them. However, no one cares about it or does not care because everyone gets their food on time and can eat delicious food as they like. And even if the housewives of the house are sick or weak due to not eating enough nutritious food, they take care of others every day. That is why it can be said that there are no people to take care of them.
So a person who works day and night for everyone and feeds good food to others without eating it themselves, finally gets nothing but neglect and bad treatment. If you look closely around us, you will see that there are many families, even if you look at the mothers and housewives in your own family, you will see that they always save good food for others or cook only good food and favorite food for others but never cook their own favorite food or never eat good food. And in this way, all these people are gradually falling prey to illness. Many times, the housewives of the house waste or throw away the food that they save for others or give to others without eating it, as a result, no one can eat that food anymore. Many times, it is seen that the housewives of the house save it for others without eating it or cook the favorite food of others and feed the whole family with good or bad cooking, but at the end of the day, we have to listen to the words that they do not cook well or do not take care of the family members.
In fact, to tell the truth, constantly worrying about others by hurting ourselves is the biggest mistake we can make. Because the people we work hard for, the people we think about being well, the people we cook good food for and the people we try to feed our families are the ones who neglect us and do not value our feelings of love. Therefore, before thinking about others, we should think about ourselves and take care of our bodies by eating good food ourselves. Only if we are healthy can we take care of others and keep them healthy. Although it may sound a little selfish, it is absolutely true because if we do not take care of ourselves while thinking about others, then if we get sick, we will not have anyone by our side. Therefore, we must explain to them that we also have importance, that we need to eat good food, that is, nutritious food, that we need respect and love. Therefore, we must first love ourselves and take care of ourselves, and then think about taking care of others. Only when we can love ourselves will others love us.