Hello friends, how are you? I hope you're all doing well. Today I've come with a topic.
Friends, sometimes in our professional lives we go through experiences where people try to tease us; to wear us down, they'll go to any lengths. But what should we do then? From what I've thought, it's better to remain silent than to give them a like-for-like response.
Because, as far as I've seen, silence is the best response—it forces your enemy to wonder, “I treated him so badly, yet he remained silent. Now who knows what he'll do to me, what tactic he'll use.” He spends the whole day caught up in that, unable to figure out what his next move will be. how it will come, when your silence has already created a quiet peace within you that you carry into your daily life.
Silence is not a weak response; rather, it is often a sign of control.
Maturity is a sign of decency and a good person; it's the power that keeps a person away from unnecessary fights and makes them emotionally strong.
Imagine someone insults you and you immediately respond—it could create long-lasting distance between you and them, to the point where you might never be able to face each other again. So it's better to stay silent, entrust your affairs to your Lord, and then… See how your Lord deals with you, because our Lord has always treated us best and will continue to do so.
As Muslims, our faith is that even if you remain silent while in the right, your Lord will deal with you in the best way; He will never leave you alone. It's our tendency to think about what wrong someone has done to us. Right now you're thinking about who you're supporting and what they're like. …how he can abandon you. He will always keep you close and give you the best reward—it's just that when the time comes…
You may have also noticed that these days fights have escalated to the point where they don't stay confined to one home; they're practically declarations of war. Especially on social media, if someone wrongs you, you start a fight with them on social media. That fight, which is only on social You're not just doing it on social media; it's reaching thousands of people, and both you and your friends are getting dragged into it. A single reply can destroy everything—your whole concept. People see how this guy behaves when he's angry. Yeah, that's also true.
knowing when to speak—when you're being wronged, when you're being oppressed—then your anger is justified. If you can get someone to do what you want by your anger, and they respect that anger, then you can use anger to get your point across. But remember that the response to your anger… is how you get a response from him. Do you notice that the person you're talking to matches your anger, or does he behave the same way you are? In that case, you both share the same view. Then I'm telling you that a fight can happen. So, in my opinion, this is what it is: if someone is also being abusive toward you… does, you should respond to him in silence. When you respond in silence, it will be a defeat for him—a defeat he will have to endure until you make peace with him.
Translated by Deepl from the Urdu language.