This days, all we do is survive, each day has it's own problems, time and time again life treats us like a roller coaster, takes us up and brings us down at full speed. Yeah, i know the feeling very well. I will relate few experiences.
I was born in togo and French speaking country in Africa, i was told that when i was born so many good things happened to the family, but after a while it drowned back. Business stopped working, till the point he was poisoned and we had to come back to Nigeria for treatment. So many more similar experiences like that but the danger is when you let it keep you down. If life is riding you like roller coasters, then keep getting up, if it gives you sour lemon, turn it into lemonade and enjoy your drink, you are the only one in charge of your life you make the choices. But how can you do that?
First thing you have to do is keep smiling. Your dmile is one of your greatest weapon. It keeps you positive. You wake up in the morning smile, you dress up in your favorite outfit smile, you walk on the road and a car splash dirt on you favorite outfit, oops 😬 yeah that's serious and you have somewhere to go, still smile, cause what will complaining about the problem cause? Nothing, just extra work for you. That leads to the second step, focus on the solution not the problem. Think about how it can be solved not how it was done, find a solution about the problem like your outfit that is now dirty, you just have to go home and get another one, problem solved and no time wasted on arguments. Be the chill guy
Third step, don't envy any one. Yeah, when you envy you may not know but you cause more harm to yourself, envy makes it look like you're busy doing nothing while others are enjoying. It makes you inferior. So, don't think your worthless, cause if you were giving a 100 million dollars for you to die the next morning, you won't accept the offer, so like the guy who said this motivation, i quote " live your life like you're worth a 100 million dollars".
I was looking for any of my sad pictures to post but i remembered, I have never been sad cause i was always positive, not like i have not suffered or mine is not that much but it's because I don't let it get to me, i adapt to any situation, i remain chill and i always make anyone close to me happy. Don't be the mean guy, spread joy, spread happiness and spread love in return you will never be sad.
So guys to the next motivation, that's if you will need it.