Bullying is something that happens to freshmen on their first day at school or college. This happens when a group of students get together and force you to do something, which is very wrong. Yes, being introduced is one thing, but doing it is quite another. Some people go so far as to make fun of the innocent child, making them take off their clothes and doing things they shouldn't. Doing this is very wrong.
Nowadays, this practice has even become legal in India. If you go to any college or school, you'll find posters everywhere warning you about bullying. Such laws are in place today, but even then, there are many students who disobey this and start bullying all the time. Institutes need to be very vigilant to stop these students. But they don't focus that much. Bullying has become a major crime for us today, and there are many such people.Come on, in the name of bullying, many people do it in such a wrong way.
Recently, some such incident has happened where some boys were bullying, and in the name of bullying, they took off the pants and shirt of a boy and made a video of it and sent it online to everyone. Just think how wrong it was. His child made fun of him so much that he took his own life. Later, a case was filed against all those children for bullying. That's all they care about. What about that child who gave up his life? "What do you think is the reason for all this?" you will say. There is one thing that is very bad, and that is bullying no matter how much you do. No one will question you because everyone will leave you thinking you are such a student.
This bullying completely shatters a student's confidence. They came here with the hope of staying in college, of making their college a success, of studying well. But because of these bullies, these boys, their situation becomes extremely difficult. These days, bullying has become so problematic because it's everywhere, and they urge you to do things you can't even imagine, and you'll find them incredibly wrong.
Such harassment doesn't just happen to boys; it happens to girls too. If you don't do what you're supposed to, people will put you down. You'll be constantly harassed, so you'll have to try indirectly, and no faculty will support you. I've seen this myself. No faculty member will support you, but something serious might happen inside. How about this girl, who was very good and who cracked the academic record?I went to IIT to study bricks, but what happened? It was finally done because it was done in such a way that you people cannot even imagine it today.
The only solution to this bullying is to go to your college's anti-bullying department. You should file a complaint against the boy. You should also file a police complaint. If no action is taken, you can go to court, as that's your right. No one can bully you like that. No one can force you to do such things. So, be careful and stay away from these things, because these things are very bad. Don't think that tomorrow you should do the same to someone else. Why should someone else do what you did? So, stay away from these things as much as possible. Bullying is a very wrong thing, especially in schools and colleges, because these places are full of sensitive students who are trying to build their careers, not to do these things.
To tell you personally, this happened to me when I first started college in Odisha. Under the guise of introducing us to 10-12 seniors, they started bullying us. They asked a student to play cricket with a bottle, asked another to sing, and told another to pretend to be a monkey. They even spoke to me in a very rude manner. I didn't like all this. But I couldn't do anything about it. Is there a department to prevent bullying in our college? I inquired, but there should be one because the faculty members couldn't understand what we go through.
What difference does it make to the idiots, and why do we even care? I didn't like it at all. I got very angry. Why should I even bother listening to anyone? I pay my own fees. I do everything myself, so why should I listen to anyone else? He threatened to make me stand outside the classroom because I wasn't listening to him.You made me very angry because I bought a teacher back then. But he didn't say anything about all these little things that I don't like at all.
Lastly, I'll say that we go to school and college to study, not to misbehave. These mischievous students are very dirty and very college-age because they don't want to study themselves. They don't want to improve their future. They misbehave, and if they find out, they keep misbehaving. They go through school and college and then work in a call center or beg, so these people don't have to do anything themselves. Whatever we have to do, we should stay away from all this. If you're bullied once, you should just quietly accept it and focus on your studies as much as possible. It's human nature to ignore all this. You'll remember it for a few days, but then you'll forget everything. You should focus on your education because your parents spent so much money to send you to school. I was very upset myself. But after a few days, I forgot what to say. Forget it. What should I say to him? Focus on your studies, and they won't care.