There are a lot of things that we have to be coming across in our lives and because of that there are a certain situations which are something that we did gave in a lot of effort to make them better but eventually we reach the particular point when we understood that it is not worth it to be giving in effort into the particular thing and their food we try to set certain boundaries within that particular aspect which is going to be making us a little better of without that particular situation to be existing in our life and that is what boundaries are existing in our life for.
There is a very big misconception with the concept of boundaries because people feel that it is a certain thing that we do, which is going to be preventing us from doing certain activities, which is in terms of what is going to be keeping us just away from that particular thing, but in reality, it is more like a safety decision for us. After all, we are trying to protect ourselves from something that we know for a fact is obviously not going to be a great thing for us.
There are a few boundaries that have been set in my life because, actually, they are pretty much essential for me to be carrying forward, but one of the most important ones, which I feel is definitely the one that I am very much proud of, is obviously going to be never accepting any kind of disrespect. This might seem like a small habit, but at the same time, it has been quite influential in my life as well because it has actually had a lot of positive effects, which could have easily gone the other way.
Boundaries are essentially very important in our lives because they actually help preserve a lot of our energy from certain things that can be very harmful. After all, we need to be keeping ourself stable in terms of our emotions and mental state which is very vulnerable in the life that we are living because if we are not having certain boundaries then we might be open to a lot of issues that can be coming on to us which is my it is obviously better to be putting upset in boundaries that is going to be ensuring that we are going to be sting away from things that can actually mean us harm in any way.
I never really had the concept of boundaries from my childhood because it was something that just came to me with experiences that I had in my life, because if a thing happens over and over again. You keep getting hurt from it. It is quite natural that you are going to be trying to avoid that particular thing, which is causing that particular thing, which is why boundaries started to exist within my life, and just after doing something like that, a positive result, which made me believe it a lot.
Disrespect has always been one of those things that I used to be taking quite lightly because I never use the think about that in such a manner as I used to believe in the people are obviously going to be saying certain things that we might not like but there is a certain definition where we should be trying to stop but that was something that was not very clear to me but after and certain while it became absolutely clear to me and it was a kind of aspect where I found myself in which was very much helpless to think of because I used to be getting myself into situations by my own self even though I new that it was something that was actually targeted this respect to me but just because of the fan that I wanted to be there I went ahead without thinking about this.
The worst thing that happens while in the situation is a fact that the people who are doing certain things are always going to be getting more confidence just because of the fan that you keep on going to them regardless of whatever they do and that is when the amount of this respect keeps piling up on each other and it becomes even more worse but I the same time it is very difficult for me to just get away from them even though I know what is happening and that is really a very bad situation to be in.
But after a very long period of time when all of these things just kept on happening and it never seen to get better and I also notice that this is a pattern that is just getting words with everything will day it's started to hit to me that if this is something that I want to be in a situation when everyone is just making a lot of dresses packed very much casual and I am accepting it just because for the fan that I want to be with them and since then it was something that I never really thought about much and try to just be with my own self and try to distance myself.
Slowly this certain boundary was starting to develop within my ownself and after while I made sure that I will not be accepting any kind of this respect from any person in which river form that they do it in and that has been something that I actually managed to implement after a little bit of time and I really feel very proud about it and also very much regretting about the situations where I was apart in even though I actually knew for a fact what was happening.
It was not and easy journey for me and obviously filled with a lot of business studied but there were a lot of other struggles that I had to go through to be setting up this Mount river then my ownself because for a very long period of time I just believe for a fact that I just want to be with that person even if the do whatever they do I just want their company and this alone fat made me a target of so much of this is that is really astonishing.
However now I have realise the fact that how much important respect is in any kind of aspect and from every single person who is involved with us in any way which is something that we should always be trying to keep up at the highest level and maintain it to be the first factor that should be existing in any kind of interaction which is why I have made sure that this is a boundary that I will always try to maintain and has been something that I am very proud of.
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