Life is too short to waste on people who don't encourage or support you. Those who degrade your success and demotivate you aren't worth your time.
You should always be selective, and take care of yourself. Be selfish in your own affairs and know yourself. Nobody can help or assist you more than you do and it is crucial to focus on your happiness and development first.
Sometimes we require the people to stand by us and even motivate us to help us in times of need but mostly they fail. At times like this, it is important to be on your side. There is no other person who knows you as well as you know yourself, and no other person that can be a more effective guide than your own understanding of yourself. Determine what you want to accomplish and what you want to achieve, then strive to achieve it. All the struggles will pay off provided that one takes the right attitude toward them. Keep your head straight and you will be proud of yourself one day.
There are several people who can attempt to educate us in life, but it is important to realize that not all people are interested in our best. About our happiness they some may not be pleased. That is why it is important to be able to educate ourselves and see things through other angles.
In case of people and situations, monitor the results and their influence on your motivation and success. Know how to see patterns in the behavior of people and what results of their actions are. This self-knowledge will assist you to live a better life.
We move on, people move in and out of our lives and it is ugly reality. We have to realize at some point that we have to depend on ourselves because no one is going to stand by us without conditions.
Knowing this fact could help live a better life and make it easier because it would show us to create a balance and prioritize ourselves.
One needs to know what promotes our growth and what inhibits us and this is only realized through our experience and the individuals surrounding us. In this way, we are able to set our goals and strive to reach them.