Having a family for myself give me direction and hope with a new set of goals and priorities, I now more focused on what do they need and wants than to myself.
Like I told you in my past blogs that my family is my strength, they were the ones that gives me strength whenever I will work like after work and when I see my family all the pain, tiredness, and exhaustion were gone in a second.
Whenever I hug, talk to my family especially my daughter, all of the problems were gone because I am glad to see them and they will always give a smile after work.
Well, there were times that my wife will not give a smile because of some misunderstandings and a little fight but that's normal for a couple to have a little fight because there's no spiciness of a relationship if there's no fight with them.
When I think about responsibilities, I do think that I have more responsibilities than before but that responsibilities were from my family on how do I feed them, what are their needs, where can I get money to buy food for them, and etc.
While I have more responsibilities, I also need to work hard so that I can feed them every day. Responsibility as a father of our daughter and a husband to my wife.
My little family is not that well off that we can buy many things but providing them with the best that I can is the best gift that I can give to them. With the best life that they could experience, I think it's best for me.
Much more if I can provide them a good life with the best experience especially my daughter. How about the sacrifices? Yeah, I sacrifice myself by working a little far from my family so that I can provide them with the best need and give them the best life even if I am a little far with them.
Although, there were ups and downs and as well as challenges that happened when working but the fact that I am working not for myself but for my family is all that matters.