Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. In this content i want to share about the first time looking my son Grade Report. The first time he got assessed from his study and hardwork. When he at kindegarten usually my wife that took all of my son report and i just listened what happened from my wife. But, since my son already at primary school which is different departement with my wife and my wife still teaching, so this time i need to come and listen what the teacher said and took the report.
You know what, i dont know but it felt like i nervous this time. I am afraid i cannot control my temperament after seeing my son grade. LOL. And i afraid i felt too dissapointed after see the grade. And I am afraid too that my son felt depressed after seeing his grades. But back again that are just my imagination and too much overthingking. Recently when in church i ask many times to GOD that My Superpower being overthinking and can do Mind Mapping be gone forever so my brain can rest a lot. Always doing mind mapping can be really overwhelming burden for my mind and body, it really exhausting. Okay back again to my purpose come to my son school.
After we entered the classroom and met up with his homeroom teacher, we told that my son still cannot control his ego. Yeah no wonder, he does not have any sibling here. Also he hardly learn english. And this is the big problem since he is in International School which is the main language is English. But, after reading his psychological report, his power is on Numeric not Letter. Thats why he hardly to learn to read, understand language, writting. But, since we are using our mother language in home, i think he still can got good grades when comes to Indonesian Language. For his Character building, i really proud of him. At least this is the one that I always teach to my son. So, at least his attitude is still good. The main skill to enter the world of adulthood.
And for computer subject. I think it is pretty normal that mostly new gen can be a Tony Stark when touching gadgets. So, i dont worry about this tech thing.
Overall is really good for his grade. But, like the teacher told me that my son is hardly learning about letter and language. Thats why his Math got bad grades. It is not because he cannot do the math. But, the main problem is he does not know what the meaning of the question. And when my wife try it using Indonesian language, he can understand and all the answer are right. So, with this report. My challenge right now is to change my learning system with English. I think i am giving wrong method. I think i need to change the method and utilize the gadget to make him learning about vocabulary and sentences. I am hoping this method can be suit for my son.
