I think the thing we really learned with Jovi is that we probably let her go longer than we should have. It's hard to know how much suffering we were putting her through by holding on as long as we did. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. I know how much it sucks. It would be so much easier if they could just talk and tell you what's up!
RE: Finding out your doggo buddy is dying... it's not a nice feeling