Because he is the father of my children I still care about him and I still home that are family will be form and we have a complete family. We are only human who make mistakes and god knows how to forgive. Some of his relatives are angry with him especially his aunt because of his bad habits and abuse in his body with too muçh alcohol, so it seems that his aunt has abandoned him.
I really stupid because despite everything he did to me I still love him and also because he is the father of my children. His aunt wants me to leave him alone so that he can learn and blame himself but in this situation I can't do that. He is struggling maybe because his blood pressure is too high 160/140 he might have an stroke.
I didn't follow his aunt so I went with him to the hospital when we got there to the emergency room we emmediately saw that he was getting very pale and his condition seemed to be getting worse. In the emergency room he was emmediately given medicine to lower his blood pressure and other tests on his body. He could not speak his tongue seemed to have retracted/receded probably of his high blood pressure and he was on his way to a mild stroke .
We spent the night at the public hospital, he observed that if high blood pressure had come down by the grace of god around 4 am had come down and he was not admitted so the doctor only prescribed medicine for his acid reflux. I didn't realize that I was crying I hope he gets better and we get along together. At 7a.m we got home and he went to get better. I'm happy with what I'm doing and also my children is with their father.
Thankyou for the support team hive