Good day #HiveWorld,
and to all the Ladies out there! It's still Women's Month and I want to share with you my perspective on why numerous women stay single.
I have many strong, independent female friends who are also single by choice — they're smitten with every aspect of it and brave enough to face the consequences of their actions. The advantages of living alone are innumerable and to remain single is nothing to be afraid of.
Relationships are no longer the highest point of human existence By the way guys, most of these women are truly beautiful, smart and most importantly happy being unattached. Flying solo can be more enjoyable now than ever before. A growing number of individuals are choosing to remain alone for extended periods, if not their entire lives.
People think that I chose to stay single because I'm a straightforward lady with an intimidating demeanour and no man can hold his reins on me. They are wrong. Meeting the right person is uncomplicated. I just recognise the delusion for what it is: a figment of imagination.
In actuality, being self-reliant can lead to a lot more satisfaction and freedom. That I most take pleasure in. A growing number of women now believe that being single is having more time for themselves. Though dating occasionally is enjoyable, it's an opportunity to establish a connection without committing or being bound. Some women opt not to date at all, and they discover that their lives are perfectly happy without romantic attachments.
I do date single guys in my age bracket,(even though younger guys are also asking for a date, but I turned them down because I feel uncomfortable - they are almost half my age!) they also are nonetheless bachelors and it's gratifying. We merely conversed about younger days when we were so idealistic about choosing a life partner, cracking jokes over some things that we did when we were in grade school or high school, playing our favorite sports, and so many things to talk about over a cup of coffee or dining out in a cozy resto.
That isn't to say that relationships are bad. However, real life, and real relationships, are rarely easy. It requires a significant amount of effort, and understandably, not all women wish to do it.
In my younger years, I wished to settle down with the one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life but things turned 360 degrees when my boyfriend passed away the turn of events was not that easy for me and plans changed in a blink of an eye. I remain single with kids.
When it comes to everyday activities, single women are usually busier than single men. They engage in more active social lives and other activities. Single women have much more time to pursue their interests, education, careers, and life goals than women in relationships. Women appreciate their freedom and desire to prioritise themselves in their lives. Many of a woman's key needs are no longer met solely through a partnership. Being alone and being lonely are not the same thing.
I am one of many women who appreciate and respect private time. It does not make me sad even though my son passed away recently. Spending time alone offers me a strong sense of joy. Rather than longing for a man in my home after my son's death, I took pleasure in having my own space. I have plenty of time going places, tending the garden, crocheting, embroidering, writing soul-stirring content and poetry, creating my favorite fresh blossom art and flower calligraphy, glass bracelet making, simple drawing and other things that can make me more fruitful. Of course, appreciating quiet moments implies that I also enjoy myself!
Self-love can seem like an antiquated phrase. However, we should never underestimate the significance and power of self-confidence. Identifying the genuine source of self-esteem, expectations are likely to rise along with it. Happy and secure single women aren't desperately hunting for someone to fill the void. If they do want a companion, they are willing to wait until they come across the best match and circumstances for them.
Nothing surpasses having some time as a single lady to go on a journey of self-discovery. The most important relationship is the one I have with myself. Using spare time to pursue and develop hobbies, ideals, likes and dislikes, and interests without becoming involved in a relationship. I can make my own decisions without having to seek permission or consider the opinions of others. Moving to a new area, travelling whenever and wherever I choose, attending a play or watch my favourite movie, dine with girl friend/s, and engaging in other activities allow me to make the most of my time and resources.
In today's world, a growing number of women are opting to be unmarried simply because they can. Single people have stronger relationships with their neighbours, friends, and family. It's just a matter of preference, single or in a relationship. Furthermore, whatever decision you make no longer matters much and doesn't define who you are.
A Silver Slate Single Woman
A relationship may seem to be the missing piece of the puzzle but for me, this is not required...THIS IS SIMPLY AN EXPRESSION OF VIEW FROM A SILVER-SLATE SINGLE WOMAN.
I guess I have burned lavishly of your time. I am delighted to impart a small chunk about me with you and I am thrilled about heading toward this amazing avenue with all of you!
Thank you for fetching around my blog and checking out the post. Catch you on my next blog.
Namaste,
Hive account@diosarich💞
About The Author
A feisty artist and writer who balances her time penning poetry, soul-stirring content and flash fiction, sketching, and designing by using fresh blossoms, needlework, gardening, baking, and caring for her partially impaired vision Mom after her intellectually and physically challenged son passed away. She explores unexpected views that ignite her zest for life.
