Is It Really Hard to Move On After a Fresh Breakup?

Happy Wednesday Hivers!

I remember back in my high school and college days, whenever my close friends went through a breakup, they would really cry. They would even tell me how painful it felt. At that time, I hadn’t experienced what you would call a serious relationship yet. Yes, I had been in relationships, but I can’t say I truly took them seriously or was fully committed.

Since I wasn’t committed and didn’t take the relationship seriously at that time, I didn’t feel much pain when we broke up because I wasn’t that attached to the person. We rarely saw each other back then especially since relationships weren’t allowed in our family while I was still in high school. Because of that, we had to keep it a secret. We would only see each other at school, and we didn’t even get to talk that much. Also, there were no cellphones before, so it wasn’t easy to form a deep attachment.

When I had my first serious relationship, I had already finished college and was working. By that time, there was already internet and mobile phones, so communication became much easier. It was also easier to express your love because you could connect instantly. You could feel their care every day through calls or messages. Even if you didn’t see each other often, you could still feel the love through constant communication over the phone.

It’s easy for your feelings to grow deeper for that person. If you want to share everything that happened throughout your day, it’s so easy you can do it with just one call.

I experienced my first breakup in my late 20s. What people say is true when you truly fall in love and then break up, it’s incredibly hard. You really do cry. You lose your appetite. You don’t feel like doing anything, and all you want is to stay in bed and be alone. That’s exactly how I felt during my first breakup from a serious relationship.

It’s difficult because you’ve gotten used to having that person in your life every day they’ve become part of your routine. You wake up to a “good morning” message, you open up to them when you’re having a bad day, and you spend your free time with them. You’ve created so many memories together, and when you break up, those memories become painful.

I remember when my first serious relationship ended whenever I saw our favorite place to eat, the spots where we used to hang out, the songs we loved, or even the food we used to share, it felt like something sharp hit my heart. In those moments, I would suddenly feel sad and end up crying.

Breakups are really hard, especially when you’ve grown deeply attached to someone and they’ve become part of your daily life. But as time goes by and you slowly learn to live without them, the pain becomes lighter and your feelings begin to fade. It may not be easy, but little by little, you will find yourself healing and moving forward again.

Thank you for reading and see you on my next blog. Cheers!

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