The hardest part of the wedding is the melka when it is held in the house. A lot of things to do and arrangement. Among the five wedding of my boss children , this is the most busiest party I had been done. The melka of the two boys were held in the wedding hall and the second daughter. The first daughter who had been the first got married 10 years ago was held in this house but the sound systems was outside and the food served outside the house. Chairs and table was set outside but this time, all my nerves were shaking. Thanks God for the strength and courage.
How I wished to sing Dance with my Father during the Wedding.
There were 6 singers came/ traditional song being played and orchestra using the heated stuff. I saw it being used by Filipino native people too.
Music was being played from night to morning and the first thing they did was picture taking with the bride and groom. I heard my boss asked his daughters and all children and grandchildren to have family picture. I had a teary eyed watching a happy family together. I couldn't imagine how small they were before and now 5 of the children have family and my boss have 8 grandchildren, 3 girls a 5 boys. It made me cry, happiness being a part of their life. On the other side, I was not there during the wedding of my only son. How could I be totally happy? Life is so unfair. I am not blaming God or anyone but I human to feel insanity after all those things I sacrificed.
Dinner Setting On the Floor
I made all the set up where I forgot to take a picture. Just imagine , all the visitors setting down the floor as long as you can sit down and health condition is good. We setba table those senior women. All visitors were female. The time we served the dinner was already 2:30am.(at dawn).
We also served dinner to the groom and male member of the family, father of the bride, two brothers and 5 grandson earlier at night.
Dinner For Us
There were 21 big plates full of foods, distributed evenly on the floor with enough distance of 6 person in every group. The first batch were visitors from the groom side. then followed with another group. We going our slots in the corner. We were 5 Filipina and 4 Ethopians who helped me doing the up and down work. But we have two plate for us plus unlimited drinks, sweet and many kind of foods.
We forgot the tiredness and even all of us were sleepy. The dinner came so late. But that is how they regularly served the foods for the female visitors.
We finished partial cleaning until 6am . I slept at 8am and woke up 10:30am. Checking downstairs, I was not satisfied how they cleaned so I repeat the cleaning and everything. Until today, the cleaning is on progress. Little by little, I can achieve the clearest cleanliness. I need neat and clean looks of everything and well organized.
That's all for now and thank you for all your support especially to 
