I saw a post somewhere where a young lady was blunt angry about the fact that she cannot handle a man who gets to be told everything so she's trying to role out the fact that there's some level of things she expects the man to know and that he must be able to do them himself without being told and even if she is supposed to be there to correct him or coach him in the right direction she would still not want to do so because he's a grown man and can think for himself.
But it is not expected to be so men are wired to think and they need some time to do so and when in the mode of thinking they wouldn't want any disturbance and the only thing logically not emotionally so in the end they just feel like they already thought right.
But then aside that in the general mode of communication it expected that if you want anything done you have to voice out , you have to State it so that the next person can be able to understand you or get you correctly otherwise you just be sulking in pain.
Simply because you feel nobody's wants to listen to you, meanwhile nobody is born with the gift of reading mind. So it touched me to say that if you want something done from your man from your brother from your father or any masculine figure around you you don't expect them to automatically or magically know that stuff please teach a man by communicating to him teach a man how you want to be attended to not every time of course! because there are some attitudes that cannot be changed but in the areas where you feel he is lacking.
you might as well want to come out and face it , face the idea of talking and by doing so he would definitely change and adjust to the things you desire so don't just swallow it, teach the masculine figure the other small small details don't just throw a good man away because he's missing out on some details that you expected that he should have magically known.