Introvert best friend of mine

Family is very important for all of us. Like family another important thing in friendship. Without friends, life would be boring. I never had a friend circle like a gang but in my life, I made a good number of best friends which everyone can't make in their whole life. And I met most of my friends through educational institutions. I have said about 2 best friends in my earlier 2 posts. All of them are my best friends and I don't compare them with each other because I know it's impossible for me.

The name of my another best friend is Arup Datta Bappy. When I was in class 11 there were approximately 11 sections in our college. I was in the D section and he was in the E section. In the tiffin period, I used to go to several sections to meet with my old schoolmate. So I saw him first while I went to the E section. The room in the E section was very close to the D section room. The students of both sections used to combine classes when the attendance of students became low. So the first meeting happened that way.

I have seen him most of the time remain quiet and talks to others when it's necessary. We just know each other during the time of college life and chat sometimes on Facebook.

After the HSC exam, we become disconnected for a little time. After finishing the Admission exam I got admitted to one of the top universities of our country. In the beginning time, I was going to university from my village. But it was taking a huge time of mine and for that reason, I was searching a bachelor house ( Mess ) to study in the center of town where I can get all the kinds of facilities. While I was returning from university once I met with him and acknowledged that he also reading at my university in a different department. I also acknowledged that he was staying in a mess and there was an available sit to stay. I went into his mess and talked to the owner about financial matters.

After that we became roommates. I started to know more about him there. We used to go to university together most of the time. He used to think many times before talking with others except me. Other messmates defined him as a robot. I was also like a robot till a certain time of my life and I was able to understand his feeling very well. He was like with zero emotion human according to other messmates. I know the reason why they think so. The reason is his behavior and one incident. Once one of the messmates faced a serious accident and was admitted to hospital. When one said the news everyone become shocked and asking his condition who said the news. But when my friend heard the news he didn't give any reaction and said "Oh. Ok" and started to do whatever he was doing before hearing the news. That messmate felt occurred when he has seen no reaction to my friend's face. That's the incident.

I didn't think too much about other's opinions and I know him well because I was also like him once. So I am now describing about him.

He is an introvert. He has a very good heart and like me, he was very calculative and predicted the situation very well. He used to create an invisible wall around himself and it was very hard to shake his heart. If anyone wants to know about himself, they need to break the invisible wall and he takes time to make friends and it's also good in my opinion. I was the one with whom he mostly talked at that time. I almost know about him and his action very well and he knew about me also very well.

The most important thing is I noticest that it's hard for him to show his emotion. He didn't know how to express his feelings to anyone and it made him like a robot. Although I am also not good to share my feeling with others but his condition was worse than mine. And for that reason, others can't understand his feeling except for his friends and family members.

I can still remember whenever my exam was near he used to do my other responsibilities such as making tea, cleaning the room, going to the market for food, and sometimes cooking food. I was also doing the same thing during his exam time. We used to do experiments in the case of cooking.

Both of us thought to leave the mess for several reasons a several time. But both of us didn't allow departing from the other. Do you know We never quarreled with each other? The understanding between us was so good that none of us feel harsh feeling any time. I was his roommate for 1.5 years. Both of us leave the mess at the same time and I bring my family into town and he started to stay with his other department's friend and all of them were good also because I know all of his friends very well.

We still talk to and meet each other. A few days ago he came to our department also and we talked a lot there and my shared picture here took at that time. I am discussing about the middle red man with glass in my shared picture. It's not easy to get a good friend like him and I am sure I won't break the friendship anytime in my life.