If you hate the experiences that made you who you are, it's impossible to love yourself. Setting limits requires enough self-love. Your time and energy are valuable. It is absolutely up to you how to use it. People learn how to treat you by what you will and will not accept.
The only guaranteed way to be validated is to own who you are and know what you want, no matter how challenging that may be. I want women to understand that they can overcome any challenge if they turn to their greatest source of power: themselves.
Understanding who you are, rather than trying to change your situations in life, is the key to finding peace.
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Hiraya 2022