Muchos respondieron amar duele demasiado. Incluso enamorarme para mí significa exponerme al más terrible sufrimiento.
Amar es algo que me ha llevado a las más grandes tristezas, noches de insomnio y una profunda soledad.
Y así lo pensé hasta escuchar al psicólogo Rolon... Amar no duele. Duele el desamor.
Es amar duele cuando no nos aman, cuándo no se nos corresponde y al contrario se nos traiciona, nos usan y nos dejan.
Duele profundamente que la persona que amamos no nos ame de vuelta. Tiene toda la razón, pues las veces que he llorado es porque no me han querido.
Amar a quien no se debe es peligroso.
Por eso me prometí no amar nunca más. Dirán que es inevitable. Y yo digo que no lo es. Solo hay que evitar involucrarse y alejarse de cualquier posibilidad.
Poner distancia si surge atracción y no compartir de esa manera el amor no podrá surgir y no nos dolerá de nuevo amar y no ser amado.
Pasar tiempo con uno mismo y disfrutar de un helado contigo mismo. Eso te mantiene a salvo.
English Version
Many people responded that love hurts too much. Even falling in love for me means exposing myself to the most terrible suffering.
Loving is something that has led me to the greatest sadness, sleepless nights and deep loneliness.
And that's what I thought until I heard the psychologist Rolon say... Loving doesn't hurt. Heartbreak hurts.
It hurts to love when we are not loved, when our love is not reciprocated and on the contrary we are betrayed, used and abandoned.
It hurts deeply when the person we love doesn't love us back. You are absolutely right, because the times I have cried it is because they have not loved me.
Loving someone you shouldn't is dangerous.
That's why I promised myself I'd never love again. They'll say it's inevitable. And I say it's not. You just have to avoid getting involved and stay away from any possibility.
If attraction arises, distance yourself and do not share in that way, love will not be able to arise and it will not hurt us to love again and not be loved.
Spending time with yourself and enjoying ice cream with yourself. It keeps you safe.
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