In the life of a person, there are many unpredictable experiences that we may encounter. Many unmeasurable emotions are brought out to untangle us from the situations we did not expect will leash us. In our desperation, how can we continue life? How can we live the life we want?
A person started to enjoy the beauty of life upon birth. Gradually becomes a kid to experiences the wonder of joy and sadness. Eventually, grown into an adult that matured to face the different problems in every aspect of society.
There comes a time when everything becomes constant. Constant that everything that happens is almost like the other days. Wake up in the morning with a latte at the table and pancakes, go to work in a cab, greet the smiling attendant in the lobby, immersed in many paperwork in the office, go home along the busy streets, and end the day with a blank emotion expecting to work again in the next day. Every day is the same. Sometimes we get bored, and we do not know ourselves anymore. We forgot what we wanted. Become hopeless in life and think that we are in a miserable situation.
Some always have the energy to work, eager for new opportunities ahead, hungry for success, and want to shine the way they want. Go to work with determination and immerses joyfully in loaded work to be promoted.
Other times, some wanted to balance a healthy social life and a healthy career. The activities inside the family are jumbled with the hectic schedule in the workplace. In the start thinking that hopefully, it will be balanced. But will come into their mind the thought of disappointment in themselves. Then comes the situation that enlightened them that they do not need to sacrifice either work or family. Because those are important aspects of life. Tries to fix it and eventually find their way to greater happiness.
With the three-situation mentioned, are those your situations?
All three are the situations in each one of us. We are energized at the start of every situation. Thereafter think that everything is constant and finally realize that we need the motivation to fix what has been messed up.
My friends, we need to find our purpose in doing something to avoid despair in life. We do not need to be miserable to receive the pity of others. Instead, we need to help ourselves first, before others can. We need to accept who we are, our strengths, and our weaknesses to be able to fully understand the meaning of happiness in life.
Finding the motivation to be happy is just around us. We need to realize it and open ourselves to possibilities.