Stop being a good person and you will be happy??
When I heard this sentence for the first time, I was surprised. That if we stop being a good person, will we really be happy? But after reading this article, I felt that I understood and agreed with it.
- Stop being afraid of being hated by others. So that we don't get stressed about things that don't matter. Some things we are afraid that if we do this, will people hate us? Is they dissatisfied with us? If we are too afraid, we will not dare to do anything.
- Stop living your life the way society wants you to be. For example, society tells you that you have to graduate from school, have a job, have a house, have a car, have children, even though there are some things that we don't want or want to be like that. Some people choose to listen to society and act accordingly. until it makes us look too tired.
- We don't have to sacrifice ourselves to the point of causing others to repeatedly take advantage of us. Because some people, if we don't talk or respond, they will think that we are okay with what they do. Until it makes them feel inconsiderate and makes us keep doing it without thinking that some things are too much. And we ourselves may not be okay with that.
- Stop being afraid of being alone. Because in the end, we ourselves have to live with ourselves. Able to live life on your own. Decisions, only ourselves have to decide. And finally, even if many people come into your life In the end, those people must pass away with time. And in the end, we have to be alone.
- You don't have to be with a bad friend. We don't have to maintain all friendships. Because some friendships can be toxic. These friendships also make us unhappy. Life is debilitating, wasting time with stress. If you have good friends, you should take care of them because good friends will help us go far.
- Don't waste your time on a bad relationship. and is not useful Many people are tired of this type of relationship. Some people are in a relationship and life only goes backwards. Mental health loss If it's not good, you should choose to withdraw.
- Quit refusing to be and stop being too considerate Because some people see us as easy to use or whatever, they won't see our feelings at all.
- Separate yourself from the person who always thinks you are right. Because this type of person will never listen to other people's opinions. If it stays for too long, it's just us trying to make ourselves accept what they think is right. Until sometimes we don't dare to do anything. Or don't want to do anything because you will do what he tells you to do.
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