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Learn to be a power broker. Nobody who achieves results will be willing to freely give you the access you're looking for without a perceived value.
Again, those who have reached the remarkable heights you admire know the worth of their hard-earned access. They recognize that access is not a privilege bestowed lightly but a currency exchanged for something of value.
In many cases, the value is not money on the surface but rather a reciprocal exchange of value. I'll make a post on how to get the attention of your favorite person on social media.