Today at work my boss and I had a really lengthy conversation which led to me writing this post🙂. He shared his life experiences with me, how he started initially and how life was really tough..not withstanding he was determined to keep pushing because he knew the kind of life he wanted. Listening to him made me understand things better..I’ll just share it with you guys😉
How To Master The Art Of Getting What You Want
In order to get what we want, we face both internal and external factors. The external factor can be worked through but when we lose hope and confidence that proves to be the bigger hindrance.
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1). Set Goals;
Setting goals is the first step to getting what you want and when setting this goals you go extra miles to achieve these goals. You could place your goals into categories; small goals, bigger goals and ultimate goals.
Once you’ve been able to achieve this goals within a stipulated time give yourself another challenge and start over again.
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2). Ask
It is important to know what you want. Ask yourself what you want out of life, what makes you really happy. Imagine the man or woman you want to be, what’s his/her life like, does he/she work for someone or does he /she run the show, what are his/her bank accounts like. Most of us shy away from asking these questions. Be confident and specific when asking, no one can read your mind.
3). Be unapologetic;
If you are aware of what you deserve, definitely no one can stop you. It is usually difficult at first to stand your ground especially when realating with an authority but you should never start by apologising, it shows lack of confidence.
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4). Pick up and start over;
Try as much as possible not to be affected by road blocks rather have a positive mindset about it. Fall down five times get up six times🙂. Sometimes the setbacks are more than the success but always celebrate your small wins, reward yourself quite .
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5). Try a different route;
If you are not able to achieve your goal try using a different approach. Walking the same path everyday is likely to give you the same result. It’s time to change your path and change your approach, life may surprise you.
6). Perseverance;
Persevere no matter what. Irrespective of the setbacks, get up and move ahead. If you want it badly you will always find a way. Do not let complaining be a part of your journey, stop procrastination and start working towards achieving your goals.
I’ve started my journey of getting what I want, you should start yours too😉😌.
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