Today some people still affirm that the true mission in the life of women is motherhood, and they exclude us from a world that they consider more their own than ours.
But it is no secret to anyone, that after all they have always cataloged the destiny of women, or we could say that her true mission in life is to be a mother. We've heard it so many times that we really don't hear it anymore. Consciously or unconsciously we take it as a law of nature: what according to what should be. Very rarely do we look at what this concept really means and how it pigeonholes women.
According to people who think this way, that our mission in life is to be mothers, our entire existence must focus on the biological fact of conceiving, giving birth, and raising children. Of course, due to a compelling need, we don't have time, we can work or make a career. In other circumstances, due to psychological or emotional need, for example, we are deviating from the true objective of our life. Unfortunately, still many people not only believe in this concept, but also adhere to it. If they think this way, it is because they have not really seen or understood the other side of the coin.
The woman is also a person.
To say that women are mothers above all, is to say that we were not born free, that we are tied to our sex, and that limits us; that our reproductive system defines us and, more importantly, governs us. However, there is a completely real fact that is foreign to tradition or to the concept in which men have us: women are also human beings with talents, hobbies, desires, ideals, aspirations, and our own mentality. To put it plainly: we are as human as the manliest of men can be and, like him, we have the right to choose our lives. If we all agree that a woman is a complete human being, with her own personality, why limit her to the role of her mother?
Many people are willing to admit that, indeed, the woman is a free human being and everything else, as long as she does not have children. She then she must dedicate herself body and soul, forgetting herself.
Our society has been structured this way for the convenience of some or the submission of others. We all see the reality of our days, we know that human beings have evolved and that, today, we have other aspirations and needs. And women have every right in the world to satisfy them.
Those who want it and are willing to make the necessary adjustments according to their particular situation, if they can be mothers and have a career, study or work at the same time. Those who define us as a "reproductive being" deny all other aspects of our personality and treat us as a one-dimensional being.
Unfortunately, many women fell into this trap and only felt "normal" if they limited themselves in this way. But can a person who denies himself be happy? And let's see a point that directly concerns children: can this person make you happy? Set a good example? If, on the contrary, with his example he perpetuates a meaningless tradition, he is limiting his children as human beings, both boys and girls, he reinforces the "roles that society demands... he adds one more link to the chain." . And the future: of the two.
For the society of the future to be different, and for both men and women to choose their lives with complete freedom, it is necessary to lay the foundations for that change: now.
If from today women combine careers with children or marriage, and men participate in raising children and in housework, possibly future generations our children will not have the taboos that we have had to overcome U.S. To achieve this, it is important that we women learn to see ourselves as human beings capable of choosing our lives, and of participating in the world as people.
This may bring with it some sacrifices, as the couple will have to make some adjustments to make the home work. But isn't it worth it? In this way, the woman will be exercising her right as a human being to fully realize herself in her totality: as a mother and as a person. Your children will grow up in a home of whole people: not halves that, because they feel trapped in their roles, do not complement each other.
Men are intelligent beings, so we understand that women are potentially capable of undertaking any job for which they feel a true vocation, and for which they are properly prepared.
Women have their place in the arts, letters and sciences. It can be useful to our society in intellectual and also technical functions. The men who look for them to be the companions of our lives, we also receive them in the factor services markets in any workplace such as: secretaries, teachers, nurses, doctors, lawyers, singers, actresses, executives, scientists, etc.
I sincerely believe that this is the opinion of the generality of those of us who belong to the male sex, because times have changed and so much so that there are no longer many machos at heart.
The super female sex
Some men go even further. And we consider that: the female sex is truly the "super sex". The female sex is the one that conceives, gestates and gives birth to new life. The woman, more than the man, is therefore closer to the creative concept. Although, of course, it was only a humorous exposition of a joke, since it was not intended to start a controversy about a religious dogma (God created man in his image and likeness). In the generality of the species, although there are exceptions, it is she who feeds and protects her young, and he dissociates once the time of the mother and the newborns has elapsed.
Man, stronger physically but not physiologically, has been more associated with functions related to the conservation of the species, as protector and provider, since biologically in fertilization his role is brief and purely circumstantial. But women, shorter in stature and with less bulky muscles, are also physiologically stronger.
Statistics show that although many more children are born, they dramatically die while still young. And in the animal kingdom, males and males are generally survived by females and females, respectively (due to disease, accidents, and war). And in order not to lengthen this question unnecessarily, I will end by acknowledging that the female is the true “strong sex”. Who doubts it?
We keep asking ourselves the same question once again. Do women have a place in the world of men?
Surely they always have. When have we men excluded them from our activities? We exchange eternal vows with them when we marry, because we count on them to help us find our home. Because between men and women there have never been wars.
We have never seen them as enemies, but as allies; that is why we are pleased that together we can now share the complex tasks of our progressive societies. But they already knew that there was going to be a but... But neither the man nor the woman can see with pleasure that the “main objective of super sex, to make a career. The woman who accepts her condition, who is satisfied if you are and really want to be successful, must be well prepared for the greatest event: motherhood, and the upbringing and education of your children.
It is very good that: if husband and wife work on the street, this helps them with the chores. She also has to share the kitchen and the laundry. If they both go out to work, she sometimes out of necessity, all her burden cannot fall on the female shoulders. And when women go out to work because they need it financially, we all agree that necessity obliges, but we are analyzing the ideal conditions and not the needs.
She is the active, dynamic, aggressive woman who makes her way in life according to her capacity, preparation and opportunities. The ideal woman has a happy and useful life. This woman is the true companion of her man, and the two are part of the couple and this woman must know how to manage her work, sewing and haute cuisine, since she will feel the pleasure of being a housewife when she decides to have a child who should be devoted to him. She is the one who will take care of him and guide his first steps and will watch over his shadow until she reaches school age.
Or is it that a woman willingly wants to delegate this to someone else and give up her main mission?
At this stage of the child's growth, she will be able to partially resume her work outside the home, to be molding her child again when the little one returns home in the afternoon.
Finally, when the adolescent knows how to confidently walk towards her mature life as an adult, the woman will be able to fully return to her professional life.
Yes, the ideal woman has a place in the world of men. But there are her provisional papers. She will be able to occupy this place, when she does not dedicate herself to the exclusive functions of her sex, which are definitely more important because if there is something that fathers cannot do, it is to fulfill the role of mothers because it is a myth, spread by women, women feminists that the world of work is a world of men, that world belongs to both: men and women.
Because they have shown that they can do as well as us the work that until recently was the exclusive domain of men. However, there are functions that are exclusive to women. So if we can talk about a “world of women, that men cannot invade. And if the role that corresponds to women is not fulfilled by her, who in our Society is going to fill that void?
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