Bienvenidos//Welcome
We live in a society with many filters, currently with social networks we realize that many people post photos that are not real, an example of this is: photos with a lot of makeup that the person reaches perfection, or how many have seen families who only love and support each other in photos, but in real life they do not tolerate each other. Nowadays it is common to see things like this. Many people are dedicated to make up imperfections and in many cases "making up dead people ", that is, dead relationships (relationships that we know will not get anywhere).
- Hoy día somos capaces de hacer muchas cosas en nuestro cuerpo porque simplemente no nos gusta, si no sentimos gordas(os) nos operamos o usamos el bendito maquillaje de las fotos, que muestra algo que no es real, lo cual puede engañar a muchos pero nunca a nosotros mismos. Tal era mi caso, yo no era lo que hoy soy, desde que tenía 6 años de edad mi mamá comenzó a alisarme el cabello porque aparentemente era un cabello MALO, y crecí creyendo eso, durante casi toda mi vida use tratamientos químicos para mantenerlo liso. Pero el año pasado justo antes de mi matrimonio algo ocurrió, mi cabello no resistió, se quebró casi todo y quedó muy débil, era imposible plancharlo porque se caía a pedazos. Yo no lo podía creer, ni mucho menos sabía que hacer, se acercaba mi boda y tenía el cabello en las peores condiciones.
Nowadays we are able to do many things to our body because we simply don't like it. we are able to do many things to our body because we simply do not like it, if we do not feel fat we operate or use the blessed makeup of the photos, which shows something that is not real, which can deceive many but never ourselves. Such was my case, I was not what I am today, since I was 6 years old my mom started to straighten my hair because apparently it was BAD hair, and I grew up believing that, during almost all my life I used chemical treatments to keep it straight. But last year just before my marriage something happened, my hair did not resist, it broke almost everything and was very weak, it was impossible to iron it because it fell apart. I couldn't believe it, I didn't even know what to do, my wedding was approaching and my hair was in the worst condition.
- Entre en depresión, y pedí ayuda a muchas personas lo cual me aconsejaron que no le hiciera nada porque podía quedar calva. Mi novio me dijo, quédate tranquila, tu cabello no es liso, déjalo en su estado natural, pero yo no quería porque ¿como iba a hacer? yo no sabía a que me enfrentaría porque simplemente nunca había visto mi cabello, sin embargo, le hice caso. Al principio sentía que todos me miraban feo, me daba pena salir a la calle porque no me veía bien pero trate de aceptarme. Mi novio, hoy día mi esposo, fue una gran ayuda, el me decía que me amaba tal y como Dios me había creado y si me había creado con el cabello así, es porque de esa manera era hermosa.
I went into depression, and I asked for help to many people who advised me not to do anything because I could go bald. My boyfriend told me, stay calm, your hair is not straight, leave it in its natural state, but I didn't want to because how could I? I didn't know what I would face because I had never seen my hair, however, I listened to him. At first I felt that everyone looked at me ugly, I was ashamed to go out in the street because I didn't look good but I tried to accept myself. My boyfriend, now my husband, was a great help, he told me that he loved me just as God had created me and if he had created me with hair like that, it was because I was beautiful that way.
- Un día decidí cortarme todas las puntas lisas y así lo hice, quede con el cabello completamente corto, pero natural, hoy día ya no uso mas el cabello liso, y lo que yo creía que era un cabello MALO se volvió en lo mas atractivo de mi cuerpo. Son muchos los que les encantan mis cabellos, y a mi me fascina. Ahora el agua no es mi peor enemiga, antes le temía a la lluvia porque al tocar mi cabello perdería la magia, hoy día me da igual si llueve o no, mi cabello se ve hasta mejor cuando se moja.
One day I decided to cut all the straight ends and so I did, I was left with completely short hair, but natural, today I no longer use straight hair, and what I thought was BAD hair became the most attractive part of my body. Many people love my hair, and I love it. Now water is not my worst enemy, before I was afraid of the rain because if it touched my hair I would lose the magic, today I don't care if it rains or not, my hair looks even better when it gets wet.
Y así mismo como pasaba con mi cabello ocurría con situaciones en mi interior, había tantas cosas que durante años quise maquillar, cosas que en realidad no me beneficiaban en nada, pero con el maquillaje del "YO SOY ASÍ Y PUNTO" quise tapar muchas imperfecciones en mi vida. Hoy quiero decirte en primer lugar que es cierto, hay cosas de ti que no dañan a nadie y forman parte de tu escancie, es lo que te hace hermosa(o) porque te hace diferente a las(os) demás, no tienes porque cambiarlo, y también es cierto la sociedad en que vivimos dice que la mujer perfecta es la que es alta, figura esbelta, con muchos senos y pompas, con el cabello largo hasta la cintura y liso o que el hombre perfecto es aquel que es alto con cuerpo muy definido, pero no es real, la mujer y el hombre PERFECTO(A) ERES TU ¿sabes por que eres perfecta(a) tal y como eres? porque fuiste creada(o) a imagen de un PERFECTO CREADOR. En segundo lugar si hay cosas de ti que si hacen daño tanto a ti como a los demás, esas cosas te llevaran a ser muy infeliz contigo, son las mismas cosas que te hable hace un momento que queremos maquillar con el famoso dicho "YO SOY ASÍ Y PUNTO" esas cosas de las que te hablo son tu la forma de tratar a los demás, la ira, el odio, los celos y otros, si no las cambias, lamentablemente serás infeliz y dañarás la vida de los que más te aman, muchas veces son nuestros padres, esposos(as) e hijo(as).
And just as it happened with my hair, it happened with situations inside me, there were so many things that for years I wanted to make up, things that really did not benefit me at all, but with the makeup of "I AM THAT WAY AND THAT'S IT" I wanted to cover many imperfections in my life. Today I want to tell you first of all that it is true, there are things about you that don't harm anyone and they are part of your essence, it is what makes you beautiful because it makes you different from the others, you don't have to change it, and it is also true that the society in which we live says that the perfect woman is the one who is tall, with a slender figure, with many breasts, with many breasts and a beautiful body, slender figure, with lots of breasts and boobs, with long hair to the waist and straight or that the perfect man is the one who is tall with a very defined body, but it is not real, the PERFECT woman and man IS YOU, do you know why you are perfect just the way you are? because you were created in the image of a PERFECT CREATOR. Secondly, if there are things about you that hurt you and others, those things will lead you to be very unhappy with you, are the same things I talked about a moment ago that we want to make up with the famous saying "I AM THAT WAY AND THAT'S IT " those things I'm talking about are the way you treat others, anger, hatred, jealousy and others, if you do not change them, unfortunately you will be unhappy and you will damage the life of those who love you the most, many times they are our parents, spouses and children.
Sé tú mismo(a), siempre recuerda LO QUE PARA OTROS SEA TU MAYOR DEFECTO, EN REALIDAD PUEDA QUE SEA TU MAYOR VIRTUD. Cambia lo que verdaderamente te hace daño a ti y a los demás. La persona que te va a amar te aceptara tal y como eres físicamente y si no te acepta es porque simplemente no es para ti ni te merece. Y por último recuerda siempre que eres PERFECTA(O).
Be yourself, always remember WHAT TO OTHERS MAY BE YOUR GREATEST FAULT, MAY IN FACT BE YOUR GREATEST VIRTUE. Change what truly hurts you and others. The person who is going to love you will accept you as you are physically and if he/she does not accept you it is simply because he/she is not for you and does not deserve you. And finally, always remember that you are PERFECT.
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