It's bit a little intense and introspection post regarding my life and hope readers can learn or relate two or three things.
This year gave us a lot of time in hands & avoided us to do unnecessary things. So after few months working from home and remaining staying here idle I started to analyse the things I have done or experienced more deeply and trying to understand them.
I seriously think I should be doing a lot better than now and should be at better place in my life. Am I lazy? no ! So why I little bit laid behind than others? I started drawing things and going through the things in the past.
It's all about the choices and sticking to them, persistence in following thing which started are the main reasons seems to me how our life is changed and moved in to different directions.
I got some very good opportunities which I didn't grab because of low self esteem . Not moving in to the way I was interested but taking side which seemed profitable in future. Now I am always say or advice to younger ones to take up things they are passionate rather than giving priority to other benefits. mistakes won't hurt but regrets do in long time.
So lay down some more simple rules which will guide me or help everyone.
Gratitude
Always have the gratitude for the things you have and people who genuinely want to be with you. Because what you got now are the things you badly wished for and still so many people in the world trying hard for them.
Being Kind
whatever be the situation is, being nice and kind always benefits you in long run and even the other person is mean you can have always a positive thing and above them.
Never let the opportunity slip
Some time we deliberately give up opportunities or chances which may seem small to improve our career or health. I suggest you to pick up them and never let them go easily. Because life is uncertain and we may not sure hundred percent about tomorrow. So why should take the things coming in our way slightly and regret later.
Self-respect
Some times we may go extra mile to make other people happy or to stay with ourselves. But you know what? In the long run, you surely regret it. The person we care, if they truly care us or love us never let us lost respect ourselves. You need to understand or figure out the thin line that differentiate the love and being slave.
Don't keep boundaries for learning or your growth
Many times people them selves think they can't do something or fixed limits for what they can do which is always hinder growth. I used to think same. when ever there is some challenge introduced in class or office, I used to give up with out even trying. Thinking I can't do or It can't be possible for me. Later when someone who are less capable than me achieve makes me regret not even trying.
Let go the people
You can't make people to stay how much you help or love them if they don't want to stay or be with you. You gotta understand it is only waste of time and work if they don't love you back. You keep practicing the detachment from the people who want to leave, things won't help you & habits which spoil you.
These are the things I want to practice as much as I can and live my life to the fullest with out any regrets.
