When we are in a difficult situation in life, we must be very careful who we ask for advice.
This has been happening to me a lot lately. Faced with so many problems I'm going through, often "smothered" by problems, I decide to expose to someone I know what I'm feeling.
And here is the big problem.
The problem is that because this person I'm venting about is in a good financial situation, doesn't have the "weight of the burden" that I'm carrying "on my back", he can't see or feel my problem as I do.
He will never feel the "pain" I'm feeling, and in addition to proposing solutions that will not solve my problem at all, he will judge me for thinking I'm "not doing anything" to change my situation.
I find this situation quite humiliating. Unfortunately, people today don't have the "tact" to talk, propose solutions, give advice to others. Today they prefer to judge and humiliate even more the person who is going through a difficult situation.
That's why today I prefer to be silent. Despite the pain I feel for not having someone I can talk to, it's better to solve my problems alone and silently than to expose this to someone, and besides he doesn't help me, he will judge and humiliate me more than I already am.
Only we know where "our shoe" pinches the foot.