For those of you who have loved someone, you must have felt jealous. Jealousy is something that happens to a person and it is a natural thing. As a person who believes in God, I believe that the jealousy experienced by someone is also a gift from God. Why does God give jealousy to his people? Surely God has his reasons for giving jealousy to his people. I as a creature of God's creation am only assigned to do the best thing that I can do and continue to try to be prejudiced towards humans.
Jealousy that exists in humans often occurs in relationships between humans, be it love relationships, positions, to social groups. Jealousy will continue to exist in humans to decorate the flow of life that we live. However, if excessive jealousy comes to humans, it will not be good. Humans who have excessive jealousy will always worry and continue to have bad prejudices about their relationships. Someone who has excessive jealousy must know to find the best solution to reduce excessive jealousy, it would be better if you can eliminate it.
Then, how do we get rid of this jealousy? I will give three solutions to reduce jealousy in someone.
1. Express How You Feel
There is no point if we continue to hold our emotions and anger, We should talk about all the feelings that we keep in our hearts to someone, if it is about a romantic relationship, you can talk to your partner nicely about how you feel. I'm sure you will feel relieved after expressing your feelings, and for sure, you and your partner will find the best solution. Remember, communicate in a good way without hurting other people.
2. Think Positive
This is an important point that you must do to get rid of the jealousy you are experiencing. Positive thinking and having a good attitude towards someone is the main key to maintaining a person's relationship. Trust your partner and your relationship will be happier.
3. Know Yourself
Usually, excessive jealousy is caused by a sense of trauma that occurred in the past, bad experiences that you have experienced keep coming to you like a ghost who wants revenge. If this keeps happening, you will find it difficult to control your emotions, until bad things happen. Relationships that you have been maintaining for a long time will just fall apart. If you have a partner who has made mistakes, then your partner's mistakes should not be brought up again, you must be able to forgive your partner's mistakes. Try to recognize yourself and recognize your partner, then you will understand each other and understand each other about the nature of the two partners
The thing to remember from these three things, you must do it sincerely. That way, the relationship that you have built and maintained will last forever until death does you part. Thanks for reading, and I hope it's useful. Regards