No consigo la forma de decirte MAMA, que la hija que tuviste ya hace 20 años, simplemente no es esa niña en su interior, que desde hace muchos años, ya antes de convertirme en mujer sentia y sabia que este cuerpo no representa realmente quien soy.

Mañana te diré que dentro de este cuerpo femenino en su totalidad, existe un ser diferente, un hombre que siente, piensa y añora verse como tal.

Estoy seguro que ella tratará de comprenderlo, su amor es tan inmenso que aunque le cueste buscará la manera de adpatarse a la nueva realidad que tengo para ella y para todos.

Soy un hombre encerrado en el cuerpo de una mujer y tengo años queriendo salir de aqui, me he sentido ahogado, desesperado y solo. Pero ya llegó el momento de ser quien soy.

Mi padre por su parte no lo entenderá, él no aceptará perder a la niña de sus ojos como me decia, ni menos con su machismo asimilará mis cambios corporales. Cuanto siento perderte PAPA, porque te amo mucho y te necesito en este momento.

Mañana perderé el miedo, y me enfrentaré a mis padres para poder seguir mi camino y ser feliz, mañana Alicia se transforma en Alex, porque es quien soy, una persona TRANSGENERO.

Another night in which sleeping is so difficult for me, my head is exhausted from thinking about how to tell my truth, that reality that I have not been able to face in front of others, for fear of their reactions, especially for fear of rejection.

I can't find the way to tell you MAMA, that the daughter you had 20 years ago, is simply not that child inside of you, that for many years, even before I became a woman, I felt and knew that this body does not really represent who I am.

Tomorrow I will tell you that within this female body in its totality, there is a different being, a man who feels, thinks and longs to see himself as such.

I am sure that she will try to understand this, her love is so immense that even though it is difficult for her, she will look for a way to adapt to the new reality that I have for her and for everyone.

I am a man locked up in a woman's body and I have been wanting to get out of here for years, I have felt drowned, desperate and alone. But the time has come to be who I am.

My father, for his part, won't understand, he won't accept losing the apple of his eye as he said, and even less with his machismo he will assimilate my bodily changes. I am sorry to lose you, PAPA, because I love you very much and I need you right now.

Tomorrow I will lose the fear, and I will face my parents to be able to follow my way and be happy, tomorrow Alicia transforms herself into Alex, because she is who I am, a TRANSGENDER person.

Afrontar y manejar este proceso de aceptación de la persona transgénero no es fácil ni para si mismos ni para sus familias y muchas veces son rechazados, se sienten incomprendidos, solos y deprimidos.

Sin embargo luego de aceptarse, la mayoria busca el cambio que puede ir desde la transición social, donde cambia la forma de vestir, de comportarse, sus gestos, posturas, prefieren ser llamados con un nombre de acuerdo al sexo con el que se identifican e incluso usando los pronombres respectivos de el o ella o hasta elle.

Posteriormente de acuerdo a las posibilidades del caso, pueden pasar a la transicion médica donde comienza el uso de terapias hormonales y operaciones en pro del cambio de sexo.

Las personas transgéneros emocionalmente viven situaciones bastante dificiles, que ponen en desafio su fortaleza interna, sus ganas de luchar por quienes son, su motivación y el respeto. Además que tristemente a la mayoria les toca lidiar con el rechazo familiar y social.

Ser transgénero no es una enfermedad, es una condición en la que la empatía, la comprensión, la tolerancia y el amor deben prevalecer porque a fin de cuentas todos nos merecemos buscar la felicidad.

A nuestro alrededor y en nuestras familias puede haber un transgénero, dale tu apoyo, entiende su situación y ten mente abierta porque la vida cada dia nos demuestra la gran riqueza de la diversidad en todos los ámbitos.

Quisiera compartir contigo el siguiente caso de la cantante venezolana Karina,quien es actualmente madre de una persona transgénero, su hijo Xander.

Transgender people feel and manifest that they were born in a different body than the one that identifies them, it is a question of sexual identity.

Facing and managing this process of acceptance of the transgender person is not easy for them or their families and many times they are rejected, feel misunderstood, alone and depressed.

However, after accepting themselves, most seek change that can range from
social transition, where they change the way they dress, behave, their gestures, postures, prefer to be called by a name according to the sex they identify with and even using the respective pronouns of him or her or even elle.

Later, according to the possibilities of the case, they can go to the medical transition where the use of hormonal therapies and operations in favor of the change of sex begins.

Emotionally, transgender people live very difficult situations that challenge their internal strength, their desire to fight for who they are, their motivation and respect. Sadly, most of them have to deal with family and social rejection.

Being transgender is not a disease, it is a condition in which empathy, understanding, tolerance and love must prevail because in the end we all deserve to seek happiness.

Around us and in our families there can be a transgender person, give them your support, understand their situation and be open-minded because life every day shows us the great richness of diversity in all areas.

I would like to share with you the following case of the Venezuelan singer Karina, who is currently the mother of a transgender person, her son Xander.

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