Wow, that sucks. There are SO many people struggling on this site. Like, that's why I ended up cashing out almost all of my HP, because I needed it to pay bills, and I'm chronically ill and can't work a regular job anymore, and I can't afford medical treatment. But even I have it so much better than lots of other people here! There are folks who don't even have plumbing in their homes, just look at the borehole projects supporting people who don't even have that basic need met, and others have blogged about it personally. But they never tried to scam people. She said no excuses but tried to give several different excuses.
Like listen, I understand certain things ...if a desperate person steals food or baby diapers or something, I'm not gonna snitch, I know they're desperate. But there is also a difference between a desperate person stealing from a corporation who would just write off that loss, versus stealing from individual people who are also struggling to survive. You're pulling other people down and drowning them with you doing that.