With the tag #parentingseries I am conducting a vlog series on dtube last few months. I have segregated my video series with different parts according to the parenting care related with different ages of the babies.
Part 01, Baby Care (Age 0-1)
episode: 01-10
On part 1, inclusing first 10 episodes, I discussed about the baby care age 0-1 that I discussed on another post with related links: Parenting: Baby Care Age 0-1 || Episodes 1-10, Part 01
Part 02, Baby Care (Age 1-5)
episode: 11-20
Next 10 episodes termed as part 2 i.e 11-20th episode of my #parentingseries was related about Baby Care Age 1-5 that I discussed on another post with related links: Parenting: Baby Care Age 1-5 || Episodes 11-20, Part 02
Part 03, Building Personality
episode: 21-30
At the part 03, I discussed the parenting techniques and different issues related with building the personality and behaviour of the babies that I discussed on another post with related links: Parenting: Building Personality || Episode 21-30, Part 03
Part 04, Schooling
episode: 31-40
The with part 04, I discussed the parenting techniques and different issues related with schooling stage of the babies that I discussed on another post with related links: Parenting: Schooling || Episodes 31-40, Part 04
Part 05, Colleging
Today I am going to discuss about Colleging Part. When a child start to go to college, they are introduced with different new situations and people. They also have some freedom. It's a great experience for every child. They meet with new friends. On that time they have a lot of changes in their daily lives as well as their behaviours and attitudes. So this time parents should take proper care of the child for their betterment. Parenting techniques and cares related with this stage of the child is discussed on this part.
41th episode: Inferiority Complex, Handle It Properly
Here I discussed how you will monitor and control the Inferiority Complex facing by your son or daughter at the ages they go to college.
That is the teen age of your son or daughter. And you will find suddenly that they has grown up quickly. They are now handling a lot of issues that they hadn't few days ago.
Most of the parents ignore the opinion of their son or daughter at that ages. So they find that they are out of the family discussions in case of sensitive and important issues. It creates an inferiority complex on them.
It is oftenly occured at the teen ages of human being. They play a duel role. In friend circle, they faces a lot of circumstances, handle many critical situations, solve huge problems prudently.
Even sometimes they do many big tasks that you can't imagine. They think about starting some business or traveling abroad. Some of them even lead some organisations.
But when they return to the home, they feel neglected by the guardians specially in case of major decisions of the families.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 41
42th episode: Become a friend of Your Descendant
Here I discussed how you will monitor and control your son or daughter by becoming a friend of them.
Everyone boys and girls are under control of a guardian especially their parents. They have to obey their guardians. Guardians also have to order, instruct and guide their sons and daughters.
But when they have grown up especially after becoming teenage, while the childrens start to go to the colleges, on that stage of life they don't want to obey their guardians in all aspects. Because they have some feelings, some thoughts and some inner saying about the issues.
The mental border is expanded at teenage of a human being. They create a border or horizon where they allows only his friends and favourite persons to enter.
But if the guardians can't enter on their border, they will not be able to find out what is happening in their minds. There may have some major problems or may have some little tiny problems but that's to be integrated on a big problem.
So it is very important for the parents of teenagers to monitor the inner feelings, thoughts, problems and like-dislikes their sons and daughters. That's why they require access to their sons and daughters mind. The best and easiest way to enter on that is to becoming a friend of them.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 42
43th episode: Career planning of your child
Career is generally defined as the work-related and other relevant experiences, both inside and outside of organizations or institutions of his profession.
Career is very important thing for every person as it indicates how they will lead their life in future. It also indicates the social status of human being.
college life is there perfect time for taking plan about career and profession of a person. But at this time the the boys and girls are very much emotional that's why they like to decide about anything of their life emotionally.
That's why they need some guideline but sometimes parents don't guide rather than order so they don't like to have instruction guide and suggestion from their parents and it creates a contradiction of both interests.
As a guardian how you will minimise this contradiction and convince them for the year better professional life in future, I have discussed this issue on today's video.
You have to to solve 5 measure questions related with career royal planning as:
- What is his expertise?
- What is his passion?
- What is the present condition of the economy?
- What is the probable future condition of the economy?
- What is your expectation?
These 05 what will give you a career solution about the career related issues and help you to have the best choice for your son and daughter.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 43
44th episode: Selecting Perfect College
Earlier I discussed about the factors that should be considered while selecting a perfect school for the babies on a episode of my Schooling Part. But it has quite difference between selecting college and selecting school.
School going babies are not enough matured, that's why the factors are in such. But when you are selecting a college for the boys or girls, they are a little bit matured as they are now in the age of late teenage. So the factors are also being changed.
Selection of college is very important for the educational life as well as the future aspects of a human being and that's why you have to select it considering all important factors perfectly. Otherwise it may impact negatively on your baby's future potentiality.
There are a lot of factors should be considered, but I have discussed only the important issues that should be prioritise.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 44
45th episode: Other Curriculars Beyond College
Collagen part is a very important stage of life for every human being. It is having a lot of turning point that drives to the path of success and vice versa.
So every single moments of colleging part should not be wasted. This time extra curricular activities should be aimed to be prepared for the professional life and future.
You have to at first select that what is your preference related with your career and profession and then be prepared for that goal to find out what type of quality should be achieved and improved for that profession.
Then you have to select which courses of action should be taken to achieve and improve that qualities. It is the perfect time you have to be engaged with that activities seriously to enhance your potentiality in job market.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 45
46th episode: Monitor Companion of Your Child
College life is a very critical stage of life. At that age, boys and girls be involved with their friends more. It has both positive and negative impacts.
In this stage, some boys and girls become desparate. They try to depend on their friends more. But their friends are also same aged. So they may not have enough idea in different issues.
Many college students be misguided by the bad companions. Many of them be involved with some undue activities like addiction, gambling, terrorism and many others.
In this evil works, they be engaged with the inspiration of friends. So you have to monitor with whom he passes most of his times.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 46
47th episode: Build Capacity of Your Child
We have learnt many things about capacity building in our education, professional training and many other sectors. But in parenting discussion like the books, blogs, videos related about parenting, generally this issue is skipped.
But capacity building of the baby is very important thing that the parents should care about. And in this case, most of the parents are missguided and make some mistakes that leads sometimes negative impact on the mental growth of their childs.
At first you have to understand why capacity building is important. Parents like and love their child very much. That's why most of the parents try to face different difficulties by their own and save the child's by handling obstacles themselves.
But it has some negative impacts. When the parents handle every obstacles by their own, then the capability of the child will not be grown.
The child will never find his parents besides him all the days of his life. One day he must face this problems. That time he will not be able to handle these problems, because he have not enough experience to handle situations.
That's why capacity building is very important for the maturity of the childs. But the question is: how will parents help their child to build capacity? Actually it is not a instant method of learning, it is a continuous process, but very easy to do.
In this video, you will get some idea about this issue. Here I have discussed some real life examples and techniques that how you will build capacity on your baby easily.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 47
48th episode: Monitor College Performance
Most of the guardians are misguided in this stage of parenting. They think that when their child is going to college, they are enough matured to control. So they don't need to be controlled about study related issues.
But it is totally wrong concept. They are being mature on that stage, it's true. But they are not enough matured to be concerned about their future, that's why they don't understand the importance of academic result on that time.
When they are going to the colleges, they be busy with some other activities, like playing, gossiping, Mobile gaming, social media addiction, watching movie, travelling and many other things. These activities impact on the study and that's why result become decreases.
But college life is very important as I mentioned on my previous some videos- it is actually the turning point of every human being. So if they want to be careful about their future life, specially their career and professional life, it is the perfect time to be prepared.
But the question is how can the parents guide and control their child of this stage. In this video, you will get some idea about this issue.
Here I have discussed some real life examples and techniques that how you will help them to improve performance of academic related issues in college life.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 48
49th episode: Find out frustration of your child
Most of the guardians don't care about this issue. They don't be concerned that their child may be frustrated due to different reasons like career, friendship and so on.
Actually college life is the most critical stage of life when the childs face frustration more. If they can't overcome this frustration, it may drive them to some dangerous destiny.
So this issue should not be ignored. Parents have to monitor some parameters that will notify them about their child's mental condition. I have discussed this parameters in my video details.
Now the question is- what can the parents do to guide and control their child of this stage to overcome this situation? In this video, you will get some idea about this issue with some effective techniques and real life examples.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 49
50th episode: Teach to sacrifice
You may be surprised that why I have selected this topic to discuss in parenting class. Actually I think it is very important for this time.
We are losing nobel virtues day by day and being robotic. That's why social unrest is increasing also and our mental and family happiness is decreasing.
Everything we do only for our happiness. But after a lot of prosperity and progress we don't find happiness. It is the ultimate truth of modern life. A lot of researchers discover that ultimate happiness is found by voluntary jobs and sacrifices.
So we should teach our boys and girls to sacrifice everytime and to adjust. If they can learn it must be happy in their future life, personal life, social life as well as the family life.
How we will teach them and when we will teach them sacrificing- that is the major topics of today's discussion. After watching this video you will be able to apply proper techniques to you parenting care that will help your child to become happy.
Let's have the video: Parenting Series - 50
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