Paradox: we perform feats for those who do not love us. And those who need us without any actions do love us ..β€οΈ
For a long time I fell in love over the ears, and did not understand that a person does not need me.
I sought love with care, attention, gifts and other things. Have I achieved reciprocity? No, I have gained respect. But not love. Love cannot be earned. Love cannot be begged. You are either loved or not loved.
I suffered for so many years. And probably it should have happened. When I met my husband, everything was simple and easy. There was mutual understanding and happiness. And I realized that the person who loved you does not need your actions. He will just be there. He just loves you for who you are. Love yourself and be happy together π«
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